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  1. Ruby

    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    We three simply tell our daughters (ages four and six) that one of us is going to see [the lover's name], and will be back tomorrow. When any of the two of us go out (or stay in) we just say that we are having some special time together. The kids understand "special time" because we have...
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    Please help-- feeling so insecure

    LovingRadiance, that is an EXCELLENT idea-- and a great post!
  3. Ruby

    Please help-- feeling so insecure

    Okay, this is maybe going to sound weird, but here goes: I had a lover once who had lost a large amount of weight. She was covered in stretch marks, and was terribly self-conscious about it. Personally, I thought they looked awesome, and they symbolized a very important change in her life. I...
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    Hola, all.

    Hello, Ciel! I always tell Republicans who say that Pres. Obama is a socialist (let alone a capital-S Socialist), that they've obviously never spoken with one. ;) No offense to them, but we socialist folks don't even consider the president a distant fellow traveler. *laugh* Bless my dad, as...
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    Hola, all.

    I'm a long-term poly-type person (twenty-three years and counting) with two spouses, two small kidlets, a mortgage, and three middle-aged cats. My lovely, intelligent, talented and far-too-good-for-me spouses and I have been together for about a decade, and the two of them are going on fourteen...
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    Please help-- feeling so insecure

    To be honest, telling my partners when I'm feeling insecure has worked well. They are sympathetic people, and I have been able to trust them with those feelings. They have done the same, when they felt insecure. Would this work for you? Can you talk with your husband?
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    A simple question...Or is it?

    My two spouses and I have been together for ten years now. We have two young daughters and a mortgage. :D
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