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O... K... I'm confused now. I just noticed that Knight updated his facebook status yesterday to "in a relationship" with his ex. He hasn't said a word to me about it. I don't know if this means he's trying to be in a relationship with both of us, or... I'm not sure what to make of it, but this...

Well hello again. :o I started typing a long reply to each of you, but never finished it. I think I'm still feeling a little clobbered about the head as far as this whole condoms issue. I get it, though, I do. It's just not something I'd ever put a whole lot of thought into, since I've only...

I don't know what to say right now, you guys, but I just wanted to say thank you (very much!) for your insight and input. I've read what you wrote and I'm... processing. Or something. And now I've gotta wrestle my brain off this issue so I can concentrate on my homework and get ready for...

This'll probably be really rambly. I'm not even sure what I want to say. I'm feeling sort of heartbroken right now, which is silly, because I haven't been dumped. I'm still with Romeo, Knight and I are still whatever we are, and all should be well. Breaking off the engagement is really taking...

OK, updates. First off, we're taking condoms seriously, despite my whiny bitching in the previous post. My therapist on Friday delivered a nice WHACK to the head also (thought you'd like to know, nycindie) when I brought Romeo in to my appointment and we explained the situation. She sort of...

OK, talking I can do. Fluid bonding is a new concept to me (only heard about it recently when reading about poly stuff here), and I'd have to explain it to the guys, too, so it's not like they have any preconceived notions of what it is. More likely there are preconceived notions of normal safe...

Ow! Thanks for the thwack, I needed that. You're absolutely right, of course. I have lube, I guess I'll just bring it over. My body's been cooperating so far in lubing itself up (thanks, NRE) so I haven't felt like I needed it, but I hadn't thought of it possibly helping with the condom usage...

Heh... Oh yeah. A whole blog of them, actually.

OK, our resolve not to have sex until STD test results came back completely dissolved last night. We both (Knight and I) had gone to get tested that day, and were just waiting to see what the results were... I went to his place last night after class, things got hot and heavy, one thing led to...

That makes sense. I know I am empathetic in certain situations. A situation a friend of mine was in recently made me feel almost as though I really were in that situation. I hurt for her, wished I could ease her pain and lighten her load, and thought of her often. But that doesn't happen with...

Eek. I got 32. That's weird, I'd always thought of myself as rather empathetic. I mean, I don't cry about other people's problems unless they're very close to me and they're hurting a lot, but... I care, damn it!

What is there to say when things are going well? I definitely got over my funk on Friday. Went to get a pedicure, read a little, then went to Knight's place. I think I spent about 3 or 4 nights over at Knight's place. Things have been getting pretty hot and heavy, but we have to wait to have...

Hi! *snuggles*

Vix would work. :p

I look... well, kinda like my avatar. :p Only I don't wear flowy, gauzy orange dresses most of the time.

Hi! :D I'm happy to see you here.

Yeah, you're probably right about it being kind of premature to be so out in the open with people just yet. I just feel kind of icky about people thinking that I'm sneaking around on Romeo. It shouldn't matter to me, I guess, but it still does affect me. I've always been close with this...

He didn't go into too much detail. He said Romeo is not going to really be OK with this, that he wouldn't be OK with it himself, and that besides that, he doesn't approve of Knight for any of his sisters. He didn't elaborate on that besides saying that he finds Knight intolerably irritating...

Ouch. First pain, and not from either Knight or Romeo. I've always had a very close relationship with the oldest of my younger brothers. I consider this an important deveopment in my life, so I told him. He is very, very angry. I guess it was maybe too soon to tell him anything, but I think he...

Oh! Yeah, sorry I guess I was a little defensive (I tend to do that sometimes - snap back with something like "I knew that already!"... it's a bad habit). Doing your job as a mod totally makes sense.