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  1. vixtresses

    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Well, so far, nothing much turned out over that "hitch". I told Knight after he saw his ex last night that I was a little worried he would get back with her and she would forbid him from seeing me, and he laughed and cuddled me close. Looks like that's not going to happen. :o Yay! We've been...
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    Kinda stupid question... which book?

    Yep, that's where I got those titles, I was just a little confused because there seem to be two each of Sex at Dawn and The Ethical Slut.
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    Kinda stupid question... which book?

    Excellent! I bought all three (second edition of The Ethical Slut, the new Sex at Dawn, and Opening Up). :o Gung ho newbie, obviously.
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    New to everything. Sex, relationships, poly

    Yeah, sounds quite familiar. I'm not sure I'd call it a cult either, but I sure can see how it looks like one. My family also didn't always adhere to it as strictly as some did, so I guess I missed a good chunk of the brainwashing. Still got a good bit of it anyhow, though.
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Ah, so here is the hitch I knew it was going too well. It is still going well, mind, but I've found the caveat. Knight's ex has been sort of orbiting his life and screwing with his head for a while now. She really knows how to hurt him. There is something special between them, I know, but it...
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    Kinda stupid question... which book?

    Audiobook? Oh, whoops. Wrong link. All fixed now. The titles are different. I guess one is a new version. Well, good to know about The Ethical Slut. I guess I'll just go with the newer one. Maybe I'll get both of the Sex at Dawn books.
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    New to everything. Sex, relationships, poly

    Yep, that's the one. I wonder the same thing about their kids. So many of them, they can't possibly all stay in the program... can they?
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    Kinda stupid question... which book?

    Hi all! I've been wanting to get some of the books I've seen recommended here and on other poly sites, but I'm not sure which books are the ones I'm thinking of. I've heard people recommend The Ethical Slut, so I looked it up on Amazon, and it turns out there are two of them: The Ethical Slut...
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    New to everything. Sex, relationships, poly

    ATI is... well, it stands for Advanced Training Institute. Doesn't tell you much, does it? LOL. It's an organization started by a guy named Bill Gothard... actually, here, this blog entry (not my own) articulates it much better than I ever could.
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Things are still going obscenely well. Seriously. When things go this well, I start worrying the universe is just fucking with me. Spent a good bit of the weekend with Knight. Talked lots. I actually showed him this place and this blog, since I thought it would give a bit more insight than I am...
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    Hey, the same thing happened to me yesterday when my fiance and my (brand new) interest were hanging out with me at home. I actually got all the laundry done, for once. Go figure!
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    New to everything. Sex, relationships, poly

    Well hi! You weren't by any chance in ATI, were you? Your religious background sounds very similar to mine, and my family was pretty involved in that program. Obviously I'm not involved in the program anymore. :p I'm going through a somewhat similar transition in terms of exploring poly and...
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    I don't understand why this is going so well (NOTE: I'm officially dubbing OG "Knight" in my blog. It suits his persona, and is much more flattering than "OG". I'm going to call DF "Romeo", which is an alteration of his middle name and sounds romantic and cute. :p) I don't know what's making...
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Adding to that, I had already talked a little bit (online, facebook IM) to OG about the cuddling thing and such. Jeez, a tiny little conversation and BAM! NRE kicked into OVERDRIVE. It's DF's day off today, and especially with the potential issue in my previous post, I feel like I need to spend...
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Hmm. Interesting. DF and I were talking again during my lunch break and happened up on a possible hitch. He had kind of assumed that by the time we get married (which is still up in the air, we've been talking about anytime between August this year and maybe April next year, but it's soonish)...
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Well, when we've been talking about this whole thing, we pretty much decided that trying to establish specific "do this, but don't do that" wouldn't work out very well for us. Since what we're pursuing is a relationship, not a fling or fuckbuddy, we thought that those kind of restrictions would...
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Developments! First on the OG front. We went out for coffee last night, and then chilled at his place for a couple of hours. Lots of cuddling ensued. I fell asleep. He lay awake and later told me he wasn't sleeping, he was just happy and content. He was reluctant to see me go, and said...
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Why thank you! :D I'm quite pleased with the moving forward and communication stuffs, myself.
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    Word Association Game!

    Socks
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    Vixtresses' Blog (Mostly Ramblings)

    Ooh! Another person! :D (I'll get over the novelty of having actual people commenting on my blog one of these days, I suppose. For now, I'll continue being a dork about it. :p) Yeah, I'm kind of liking that way of approaching things with OG myself. I'll probably do it something like that when...
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