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Female. Orientation... erm. I guess I'm bisexual-ish? I've been attracted to females before, and had one tiny fling with a girl once, but all my serious relationships have been with males. :shrug:

OK, so latest and greatest: Not a whole heck of a lot is new. DF and I talked a bit about the improbability of our being able to somehow coordinate both of us finding additional love interests at the same time. So far, I'm still on hold as far as OG (still working on another nickname for this...

On second thought, it was actually Sunday. Still feels like Monday to me. So not just yesterday, but still, very recent. He's really excited to explore his options. We were both really clear with one another that we would be looking for relationships, not casual sex or flings, and that like any...

Hi! (OMG a person! :D In my blog!) Nope, the two of us aren't dead set... but it's an idealistic hope of DF's. I don't know if he's dead set on it or not, but since we only talked about it yesterday, and I was the one who brought it up, it's a little soon to be insisting that I can just jump...

Anybody out there? *crickets* Well, I'm getting views, at any rate. Guess that's something. So we talked (again) (DF and I, that is) about the poly thing today a few times. I'm trying not to be pushy about it, as I don't want to be like "ZOMG we have to start this NOW cause I wanna get it on...

(Newbie speaking, take with grains of salt). I don't understand your therapist's perspective on this, to be honest. Why would the depth and intensity of your feelings for a person have anything to do with your sexual orientation? :confused: You describe your current hetero relationship as...

Well, guess I'll just update here as things progress (or don't, however the case may be). I'm coming down a little from the whole "OMG! Big Conversation!" high from my talk with DF about opening up our relationship. (I'd said "going poly" on the intro thread, but that sounds awfully flippant in...

OK, I guess that wasn't all. :p What if I just simply told my attraction that "Guess, what? I was feeling a little hesitant about all our cuddling and spending time together because I wasn't sure about how DF would feel about it, and I talked to him, and he's actually perfectly fine with it!"...

Well, I posted an introduction already, but I've still got stuff bouncing around in my head, so I figured this is a good place to set it down. One thing that DF and I mentioned with some wry amusement during our discussion about this whole poly (or open, I guess, we haven't really come to any...

Hi! I'm a newbie here. :D My fiance and I have just had our first serious discussion about possibly going poly. I've recently developed an attraction to a friend of mine. I don't think that will likely turn into anything serious, though. He's nice, and there's definitely chemistry there, but I...