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This is a greatly interesting thread. G is into a bit of D/S, with me being the Dom. I'm still very new to it, so we're slowly trying new things. Right now he is most happy with slapping, spanking, biting, hair pulling, etc. Being told what to do and where/when. Not a lot of pain. It's what he...

I feel like a blubbery giggly goopy girl right now, but I am heading out on my first real date with S. I know, I said it was likely over, but he wants to make an effort, and I am willing to see how things go. Wish me luck! I am a nervous ball of girl right now :p

Good info LR! I am diabetic, so I have problems with both producing enough fluids and yeast, so we'll be looking at getting some this month :)

Games

Indeed :(

I am upfront from the get go. If someone is not willing or able to accept that I am in another relationship, then we don't even get started. Too many cowboys/cowgirls out there, thinking they can change my mind, lol. Hubby is the same, upfront about the situation. Just seems logical to us, why...

Brilliant ;) Keep up the hard work, sounds like the slow and steady truly does win the race in this case :)

I need lube due to health issues. Otherwise I wouldn't use it. And hubby likes flavored lubes for oral, so I have no objections ;)

Brilliant ideas! I am the same, I need the connection :D Notes and simple things like that certainly brighten my day, and make things better :D

Perhaps look at it this way, she understands that we, as humans, have needs that need to be met. We have wants that we want met. Being in a poly relationship is about striking a balance with all parties involved. It means everyone needs to be on board and in agreement of that balance. Perhaps...

This :D :D :D

Such an amazing read so far :)

Wow Ceil, what a biotch! :eek:

Yay! Great to hear :D Sending you all warm fuzzy vibes, hoping everything goes well for you all :D

Entry #4 I’ve decided that I am not going to pursue a relationship with S for now. He is blaming everyone and anyone for the break up of his relationship with P. He’s publicly bashing the world and her for this, and that is not sitting well with me. If he can’t hold his own baggage (thank you...

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^^ This!

WOW :eek: I don't get you, at all. You are taking this all as one huge personal insult to your ego. Ever stop to think about what is best for this person you supposedly love? :confused: Obviously not. Or you would be concerned about your husband's emotional wants and needs. Also, this...

Entry #3 Sooo…S and P have broken up. I think. S claims he’s now a single man, but P isn’t saying much. G feels so bad for P, and wishes he could help her out some how. I’m on the fence with what I am feeling about S. I’ve noticed he blames her for all the problems, and never says that he has...

Have the conversation that GalaGirl suggested. Don't just say, "Hey, I want an open relationship", but actually sit down and discuss it. It took my hubby and I 7 years of talking about it before we were in a place to open our marriage. We've been so much better off being able to be honest with...