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I am a huge flirt. It comes with the terrority of being in the military and being a dancer. My gf is ok with this. I was that way before. I tended to stop when I am was a relationship, but since she is poly I have free reign on this aspect of my life.

This is new to me as well. My gf told me after we had been dating a little bit. It wasn't serious between us at that point. I told her I would research and see what I thought. I have been on here since. She came out and told me, just flat out. I had to ask what it was. It scared the shit out of...

Ever try making Mead?

It was more or less the way she would tell me one thing when we were alone then how I would feel when we were out around friends and it would seen much more casual. We were talking about of futures and things we want, how the other would fit in. So at that point I decided that this would be a...

Actually I have the confidence that she will be there for me when I get back. Right now I am just trying to calm myself down and learn what to expect and how to handle it. I know everyone is different but I can learn from everyone. I have done a lot since being on here. I mean I was exetremly...

Ok, Here is a little back ground. I have been dating this woman for a few months. She is poly, I am trying to be open minded to it. We recently decided that we would be the primary relationship, even though she has been with the other guy longer than me (ldr). I have fears and worries about our...

Nice I do some home brewing. I really enjoy it. What do you like to make?

First you need to identify what issues you are having with jealousy. I know mine are rooted in Is she going to replace me and am I enough. This might not be yours. You might be feeling that you will lose that special something that is between you, who knows. Do some reading on jealousy, identify...

I am new to this to. I am mono but open to the idea. I dealt with these feelings as well. Things to talk about with him. Why does he want a poly relationship. Is he really poly and want another full on relationship or is he looking for sex and want an open relationship. It is good to know about...

I teetered for months. Hell when she told me she was poly, I didn't speak to her for 3 days and thought about calling the whole dating thing off. I saw it first hand once, because my gf's other partner was here for an event. I haven't dated someone else yet, but we finally made it official that...

Okay... well! Here is my input. I am mono, but open to the idea of poly. I started dating this girl about 4 months ago. She had a fwb that she saw at dance events randomly throughout the year. I told her I would be open to the idea. We have recently decided to make our relationship her primary...

I am a squid. :P I am in the hampton roads area.

I don't sail on the big grey boats. I am usually in afghanistan

Just dropped the woman off at the airport for her dance weekend. We talked she finally understands that when I say bf I don't mean in a mono sense but in the poly sense. She just told me she wants me to be hers. I feel very calm. She just wasn't sure what sense I would take everything in, since...

yes it is less stressful getting shot at. Getting shot at isn't that bad to be honest. I think it is the fact that I don't care if I die to be honest. It is more accepting my fate and being able to live with my choice.

Yes being shot at is very easy, you just have to stand there and let someone else do the work. The problem is I get pissed off and usually shoot back.

So here is the update from last night. We went to the poly practical, I held up fine during it. I participated it was more about what is going on with their yahoo group and online dating. I had some to offer but nothing about poly. Afterwards is when things got bad. She started talking to one of...

I mostly want to "locked down the relationship/title" for my own well being. Being deployed for 180 days straight of 18-20 hour days and getting shot at from time to time, I have to keep my head on straight. I can't be sitting there wondering about what is going on between us. I have asked her...

I see this all the time. It is very true. But there are some of us monos that have not and will not cheat. I think it comes down to a respect issue most of the time. If you have the highest level of respect for your partner it is highly unlikely you will cheat on them.