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I met my girl while dancing locally.

Thank you all. This is honestly my first experience with jealousy. It isn't something I have ever experienced in a relationship. I am really trusting when I am with someone, the basic fact at the end of the night I know they are coming home with me keeps me from being jealous. Though now this is...

Allstar- Baseball winter workouts and tryouts fell in the last month of the wrestling season if we were still in the state tournament (which we were). So every year for tryouts I would be in peak shape. We would do our runs or whatever and I would only perform at my best because I wasn't anyones...

Ya it was a bit different for me. I was sponsored and played at the world cup.

So here is my main problem. How do I deal with the jealousy? I am new to this, and don't define myself as poly more like a mono open to the idea. My girl has a guy that she met before me. They only see each other about 8 times a year when they are at dance events. They don't try to actively see...

Judging from you sig pic you are on a sporty?

Leather crafting is cool. I use to do that. I missed it alot. I also miss playing paintball. I use to be sponsored. It is funny the things I have interests in just no time for them now.

I agree with what everyone is saying. Me being mono, after about a month of dating my current gf, she told me she was polyamorous. (I already knew she was bi.) I am not sure where I will end up, but I am open-minded for right now. We have a great relationship started between us. No one says...

So what are your Hobbys? I enjoy dancing ballroom and swing, skimboarding, music (play violin and guitar learning piano), and riding my motorcycle.

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To be honest, I am mono (openminded towards poly). Honestly, when I talked this over with my guys at work, they seemed really into it. So I am willing to say you would have good luck in a military area. They are gone so much and usually willing to agree to the rules set by a partner. Most of...

Yes I do like the style of dance the weekend is concentrating on which is blues. She has told me if I am at one of those weekends she wouldn't promise to spend the spare time with me or even the nights.

I am not one to ask for things from people. So no I haven't asked her to skip a weekend. She planned to attend these events before we started. She also doesn't planned them around his schedule. They just randomly select the same ones because they are the bigger ones in the country. He doesn't...

I say go for it with a solid understanding on her part that you are poly and that this is who you are. As for the sex, I have been dancing for 7 years, mostly ballroom and swing. I will tell you, dancers are some of the best sexual partners I have ever had. Something about a woman being able...

She is simply amazing to me. I feel very lucky to have met her and have a chance with her. I am the first person she has dated in 2 1/2 years after a triad went horribly wrong. As for my self esteem that is my thought process I know I am a catch, I just have a bad choice in women. Mostly the...

OK, I have never been in a poly relationship, but I might be in one soon. I am learning what I can. I think her having time with Tom would help. Maybe they could plan a getaway for a weekend, coupled with you backing off a little bit, not a lot. Maybe that will rekindle their fire and help her...

Here is an update. We have been talking and she says that if we decide to make a run at this, this is how it will be. She doesn't want her secondary to be local. She is more than happy just seeing him at events randomly throughout the year and continuing to talk to him on the phone and computer...

That is something we have discussed rather recently. Everything will remained wrapped between her and I and any of her other partners. Seeing that she only sees him at events about 6 or 7 times a year this is a small introduction for the time being into a poly relationship. I don't have to worry...

Talking with her, she is looking for a relationship with someone. We are still building ours because she has been hurt in the past (poly couple) and it will take time between us to show that the fears she has from them won't happen from me. I know if I do enter into a poly relationship with her...

Yes we talk everyday about it. We have discussed how it works, boundaries, informing each other of a new person, limits. She is very understanding with me and patient. I am doing my best to understand and be there for her. Whatever that aspect may be.