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another was brought to light this afternoon. it's flooding here in nashville and it irritates me to no end the number of people that go out in this. they put their lives in danger and sometimes the lives of their children. mine is also in danger as they are being selfish and wanting me to stay...

only passions, great passions, can elevate the soul to great things. -Denis Diderot Love isn;t a decision, it's a feeling. If we could decide who we loved it would be much simpler, but less magical. If we were blind and had no choice, would we hate each other by the tone of our voice? In your...

I've tried Ibuprofen and I usually end up maxing out some months before it even dents the pain. I can't afford surgery for anything right now. Everyone always tells me "oh it'll get better when you have kids" except I refuse to have kids. I hate this. I can't use tampons or Diva Cups because my...

people that want to spend time with you but then end up on their cells part or all of the time. I understand that you have other things to do in life but I don't want to feel like part of a to do list. I put mine on vibrate so should you. Also parents that tell their children not to use double...

ok does anyone have any natural ways to lessen cramps? or migraines that come with your cycle? I have to find something the doctor can give me to make this better. I feel like I'm dying

I think that it depends really and truly on what it is and the type of person involved. As someone who is having to work on communication there are times when I WANT to know but for my emotional well being a lie is best. is this something that will impact all involved or is it like Quath said.

I am happy with D. He brought up in a conversation that I could start seeing other people. I feel like I'm putting too much pressure on him to be something he's not. I'm not sure if I can explain it well enough without rambling. You have a very good point though, YGirl. I need to work on one...

I'm used to be being wrongly judged, as I am also bi. It just pisses me off that people see that instead of what truly is. I think what pissed me off most is that he treated me as an object. I have a name and feelings and thoughts. The quickest way to get me into bed is to explore those things...

Trying to find a second partner This is mostly just me ranting, but feedback is always welcome. I met D through online dating and he turned out great. He asked me when I was going to find a second partner. I'm looking. I really am. I find myself explaining the whole poly thing. Only one guy...

wanted to let you know that I took in everything you guys said and I decided that at least one of those unaccepting people had to go. it's been a long time coming and it hurts but at the same time I feel freer than I have in a long while. thanks for listening and commenting. you guys are awesome

I may have to try the thank you thing. it's easy when it's a stranger...I can shrug it off. when it's someone that I've known for years, that has seen me at my worst, who KNOWS better...that's when it hurts. These were friends...people I trusted.

I wasn't aware that I could do a search like that. I'll do that now. I wanted to tell my closest friends. I needed to. these were people I thought I could open up to. I'm lucky that I have the 3 that will support me and now I have you guys

I'm 26 and identify with poly the more and more I learn about it. But unlike most people my age I value honesty and trust. I've struggled with mono dating. I'd be dating one person and find someone equally as amazing and not know what to do because they couldn't share me. I'm actually feeling...

My family doesn't know. not sure if telling my parents with them being sick is the best idea. I've told 5 of my friends, the ones I'm closest to. One is a bit shocked but will come around. we've been through enough to get through this. 2 pretty much called me the same things I've heard when I...

Vandalin I actually thought the same thing. it's a bit of a habit. I'm going to ask about meeting her. take the lead see where it all goes. thanks for the help. I'm glad I found this place

I don't believe they've been poly long and I KNOW she knows about me. As he had questions from her that only a woman would ask. next time we get together I'm going to have a list of questions and he's gonna give me answers.

yay! more people that understand.

So I asked and he just kinda looked at me. I don't know if they even spoke about rules when this came up in their marriage. He talks about her a lot and I think I would like her. She seems sweet. I think for now I'll just go with the safer mode. No texting when he's not on his way to see me...

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I'm not really sure as to the commonalities. I've ordered a few books and I'm hoping that they will help a bit. emailing may just be the best course of action. That way I can make sure that my questions are as clear as possible. thanks