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I was contacted by a somewhat older gentleman on a poly site, whose profile included this: I am not trying to change anyones present situation (well maybe a piece of it) but rather to add some REAL excitement to our lives. I wrote to him and told him that if he was cheating on his wife, he...

Thank you so much for your post, MeeraReed. That one helped me even more than the other good ones I've gotten here so far. I do think I've wanted to blame what happened to my ex on the kink in the relationship, but yes, that relationship is also a combination of a manipulative person and an...

You make some good points, AnnabelMore. My former metamour did indeed hide what she was very well, for a long time. As I think I mentioned, I had thought of her as one of my best friends, and so did my husband. We were both poor judges of character, by your definition. My ex is still with her...

Wow, Alleycat. Your stereotyping is close to spot on here. My former domme metamour: Late 40s Used to be married to an emotionally abusive alcoholic, whom she hesitated to leave until he blindsided her by leaving her first. She dated other men without his knowledge for years before he did...

Thanks for your input and suggestions, nycindie. I don't see this situation as a dealbreaker at this point. However, if I find myself in a situation again where a domme metamour is calling the shots in my relationship, it will be. I'm definitely going to discuss this issue, up front, with...

Anneintherain, my former submissive bf, who I was with for going on three years, told me that he had a "mostly vanilla" relationship with his domme. I can't say whether that was true or not, I wasn't there in the bedroom with them, and a big part of our breakup was her inciting him to lie to me...

I've posted a little about this already, but the issue is just getting more complicated. I have been in a long-distance secondary relationship for a year, with a wonderful man whom I get to see every 2 or 3 months. I live with my husband, and boyfriend lives with his wife. Neither of us has any...

Hi fellow polys. I'm new here. My issue is as follows. I have a very good friend and he and I just slept together for the first time. He's a great guy, he's honest, there is mutual caring and respect, I get along with his wife, he gets along with my husband, we're all poly and everything should...