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I will second that, I will also tack on that its not a phenomenon unique to poly folks, many mono folks seems to share the tendency.

Think I'm missing a point here somewhere. For me NRE is the high one gets from being with another person, it's the most intense and exciting phase of the relationship. Why not enjoy it or try to prolong it?

I'm a physical contact junkie. I love being touched, and I have a strong tenancy to utilise touch as an expression of affection. With my wife she has a few fairly specific types of physical attention she requires and enjoys, giving or receiving, and these are constant, public or private...

Lol. Sure, why not? :p

Three pints and a plate of nachos at the pub is my usual method. personally I'd recommend avoiding a place where the music or chatter of other patrons is too loud, and not a place where you cant have an excuse to vanish for a few minutes to allow them to get acquainted with each other...

I would think the promotion of events to those groups would be because of the overlap between BDSM communities and other sex-positive communities with the poly community. Frankly its an easy way to get attendance or at least feedback with a audience that already may have a positive or...

I'll 3rd that. Definetly a cheater in poly clothes.

Whatever you do, do it with class. -A ratpack quote I believe.

Never lose heart. Plenty of ladies out there prefer the straight up honest yes/no situation, but I find its dependant on age group; 24> : flaky, confused, dramatic, and frankly unsure of what is it is that they are actually looking for. 25< : Significantly less bullshit (normally), clear...

Good. I'd rather not be like every sheep out there, miserably humping along in their box of "mainstream" cookie-cutter ideals of interpersonal relation and interaction. Exclusivity (so to speak) has an interesting side effect of acting as a filter for idiots in any given population.

Someone indeed needs to make this happen.

Hate to break if to you two, your both. To some your only a novelty. And those are the fuck-n-flingers, you'll know them easily enough 'cause after they've had a ride they dissapear. To some your exotic; they'll ask questions, they mght not get into the situation but they will giggle while...

I would disagree. As a unicorn hunting pair you are either exotic or a novelty. It's always better to be exotic than a novelty, and I find a triad is more emotionally rewarding than a V. A V is easyer for sex only in my experience.

So then I should stop wearing spandex bike shorts and a feather boa on group dates then?

Hate to wear the harsh hat; but get used to it. The flake-outs, the rejections, the occasional wasted times, the DTF-but-thats-it types, etc. All of it. Failed startups to any relationship poly or otherwise are the norm, doubly so if relying on the internet to meet someone worthwhile, and...

I suppose I should stop wearing the purple mink overcoat and wide-brimmed fedora when I'm on a group date then. ;)

>.< Hero, your inability to address the glaringly obvious problems in your situation honestly makes my head hurt.

Wife finally Finally hooked up with the girl she's been chasing for months. I couldn't be happier for her. Girls hot, good kisser, very much into most of what we're into, incredibly pleasant to be around, and frankly someone I enjoy sharing a conversation with. No requested for advice as...

For me it seems to be seasonal; Durring the winter I might keep an eye out for a potential new partner, but I seldom actively presue anything that might catch my interest, durring the spring and summer months however I'm positively on the hunt for new skin and new headspace to get attached to...

I reccomend taking a page from the lady-to-lady book; -foreplay. -fingers. -tounge. -toys. -cuddling. Sex doesn't have to involve traditional intercourse to be mutually satisfying, and with three on the go it's perfectly normal to occasionally not be able to (or not feel the need) to "finish"...