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ah so then we've played each other...

It's part of my roller derby name... :D

female bisexual

I think that J started seeing another girl and that's why he didn't want to have sex with me anymore. It's just a feeling I have based on some arbitrary things I have heard and read. I believe that he's wired mono and so him taking up with another girl and not sleeping with me anymore makes...

lol :D

Just because you love someone doesn't mean that you should enable their self-destructive behaviour. This is what you are doing. I believe that Nora does have a need to discover who she is, but not at the expense of your relationship, not at the expense of the person she claims to love. You are...

thanks Mono. I appreciate your input. Whatever is going on in his head is his own stuff to deal with. I will still support J, be his friend, I just won't sacrifice my happiness for his issues that's what got me into trouble in my last relationship. here's going forward. I'm pretty excited...

hey Derby! Did you play on the weekend with the Eves? My team won the champs here in Van, woohoo!

i wonder too Mono, but he won't give me a straight answer so i guess I'll just have to keep wondering...I believe he is mono but when i brought up poly at the beginning he said he was cool with it, then he changed and said that he wanted to be exclusive and now... no sex. This is too much in a...

Well J is no longer in the picture as a partner. He first stated that he wanted an exclusive sexual relationship and then after I agreed to that, for the time being, he decided that he didn't want to have sex at all. First he doesn't want me to have sex with others then he doesn't want sex at...

Hear, hear, RP!

Good for you for being so strong! :cool:

yep Vancouver :)

I like to play roller derby and snowboard. I'm also a bit of a beer connoisseur. ;)

Yep! My ex did with anyone he could find (one of the reasons he's my ex). This guy is disrespectful and not worthy of you.

Well I was in a poly relationship with a man and a woman. Things ended (very) badly but I've come out the other side with a greater understanding of myself and my relationship style. This was my first poly relationship but i realised what was off about all my relationships before this. I am...

In Canada, therapists (and everyone else for that matter) are required by law to report cases of child abuse or endangerment to the MCFD (Ministry for Children and Families). So by the letter of the law, the therapist would be doing nothing wrong by reporting this "child endangerment" but...

What is she afraid of? Cooties? Sorry to make light of the situation but it seems to me that she's overreacting just a bit. Why is it such a big deal. You changed the part of the bedding that came into contact with the person in question. Is this really what she's upset about? From what...

March has been a very stressful and not very fun month for me. My relationship is over, I am living on my brothers couch but I am happier than i have been in months. I didn't realise how abusive the relationship I was in was. I couldn't see the subtle abuse that was taking place each and...

time is a very important thing to give. That and keep communicating with everyone. You sound like you have that under control.