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    Blissful Vee...

    It sounds like she's not quite ready to either date or have you dating others. Take it a little bit slow, it's only been a month for the three of you to get used to each other with each other and now you're asking them both to accept another person. It can be overwhelming. I am not saying...
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    I Don't Know If I Can Do This

    Please, for your sake don't pretend to be okay with this if you aren't. Talk to your husband about the way you feel. I pretended to be okay with my BF's girlfriend and it has ended with us separated and me having to find a new place to live. I'm not saying that is going to happen to you but...
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    Being poly and married

    Thanks Lizard, That's something that i needed to hear too. My partner has asked me to do the same and not really connect with anyone else. He brought his ex back into the picture and didn't really seem to care about how I was feeling about it. I was the one that had to compromise for him and...
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    Does anybody have experience searching for a counsellor?

    http://www.polychromatic.com/pfp/main.php You may also find one in your area on here.
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    Not sure how to make this work anymore...

    life is still not going well for me. I have come to the conclusion that no matter how much i love this man, it's not going to work out. We now have to figure out where to go from here. Sorry for the gory details that follow but I have to get this off my chest. The final nail in the coffin...
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    I lost my girl

    I'm with you Cat, this did not allow your "monogamous" girlfriend time to deal with the situation. I feel for the girl that you heartlessly dumped on Valentine's Day. Yes she overreacted but you treated her in a very unfeeling and disrespectful manner. First you CHEAT on her, then you tell...
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    Not sure how to make this work anymore...

    That's what I'm trying to figure out. I am going to try counseling and see where that goes. I want to be able to express the way I am feeling in this relationship without it being seen (on his part) as a power play. I think though that it's going to take a lot of work from people that may not...
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    Not sure how to make this work anymore...

    thanks for your insights, I have a lot to think about. I am going to be starting counseling next week and hopefully that will help to address my issues. After that i will tackle S on going back to couples counseling with me. It is not an option of going back to just S and I sadly. I don't...
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    Not sure how to make this work anymore...

    I have been reading a lot today and I have decided to post to talk about the issues that are happening in my relationship. The BF (I'll call him S) and I have been together for about a year and a half, we live together. His GF (M) and he were together for about 6 years before he and I met but...
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    the ex's

    I've been following your story. congratulations, it's not long now till you are at home with your loves and the kids!
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    hello out there

    I've been lurking on the site for a while now but thought that I'd introduce myself. I am part of a new polyfi triad. My bf and I have been together for a year and he told me that he wanted to bring other people into our relationship from the start after being resistant to telling me. After...
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