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    Should I Commit?

    I think it's fine to continue as things are but you don't sound like you want relationships where he does, how will that work long term? I don't know if I would move in with someone, get married, etc to someone who had a different poly style than me. He's already pushing the boundaries, what if...
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    Dating in the beginning

    nate and I started out as basically just being sexually open but he was going off by himself before I was. it wasn't discussed really, he just happened to find people he wanted to have sex with and I didn't. at first it was really hard, it was like a punch in the gut when he'd go off and i'd go...
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    How to manage guaranteed future heartbreak?

    I'm in your boat, there was a lot of turmoil for me as I felt that my days with boyfriend are numbered.I try to focus on the here and now and enjoy what we have together because truth be told in a few years he might be ready to just move on. It sucks feeling like a place holder.
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    The Best Life Yet

    I also was having sex with older men when I was a teenager (8 years older) but now it definitely doesn't seem appropriate. I halfway wandered if I was a prude or something because so many people think as long as it's legal and consensual that it's okay where I feel it's a bit predatory and gross
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    The Best Life Yet

    Yeah that's pretty weird bin.my book. The chic that Sam screwed at the haunted house literally turned.17 the week before and he was turning 32. And the one last year was 19. I have a son who is 17 and I would have a serious problem.with him.being.involved with someone my age.
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    Anniversary gift for wife and boyfriend?

    I think a simple anniversary greeting would be fine. I Don't personally give anniversary gifts to others though
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    Not sure whether...

    Craigslist? I've met some great people off there, do a.search for poly in.personals or put up your own in misc romance
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    What about the Kids?

    Yep, my awesome homeschooled 17 year old graduated his hs equivalency with nearly twice necessary for passing several months ago and he started.last month working in the hospital cafeteria. He's an amazingly well adjusted and mature young man. I'm.lucky to have such a great kid. My other 3 are...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Ugh, Nate is talking to someone new and I'm getting twitchy. He commented on a pic of hers on Fet a couple weeks ago. So she private messaged him and they've been flirting back and forth. Then she mentioned taking it to the next step, and I guess to her that is texting. She's 14 years younger...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Sam told me his mom is considering moving back to Florida. I told him flat out that once she's out, she's out. She isn't going to stay there when she decides to move back. She had two other kids she can stay with. Last time she just moved right back into the living room the apartment.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    I went over there and he was the only one there. The house is pretty trashed, but I don't think she's been staying there, or if she did, she's not now. I'm really surprised that his mom doesn't clean. Even her living room is pretty bad.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    I think a more plausible explanation would be his sister, who just got evicted, is staying there, which is NOT allowed, and he doesn't want me to know. I'm going to check this morning for extra cars.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Well from 7-9 he was at rehearsal. I hadn't had communication issues within. Monday, up called and he answered and we had been messaging earlier in the day. It's not uncommon for his family to stop by to visit. I just don't understand why he thinks that would upset me. I've gone over multiple...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Yeah but why even answer the phone if that's the case?
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    No, he rents it from my friend, I have no financial entanglements. I guess I stay because everything seems so situational. I keep hoping if all these outside things weren't there, these things wouldn't happen. I keep hoping that he'll just stop lying and that every lie would be the last. I...
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    #PolyProblems

    Lmao I posted on Facebook "I need a back-up for my back up" :P Sam isn't a back-up I just thought that sounded funny
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    Partner is smothering me

    i would probably take her off your feed and change the setting where you cant be tagged in posts, that will help with the facebook situation. she's probably feeling really insecure that you will like this new person better and is worried that with new person in the mix she will see you less. i...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    I decided to let Sam make things up to me by taking me out. He told me that he would pick me up at 9pm. I told him to get the truck washed. We had talked about doing this a few weeks ago, so he knew he needed to go to a car wash that he did the spraying himself, as he has a lot of debris and...
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    Sex - Random Questions

    Me neither but I don't really find lesbian porn exciting either
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    Does poly help or hurt a marriage?

    I agree with this, I had no idea that my marriage had issues until I got a boyfriend. I think what we went through could have killed a lot of marriages. I was very dedicated on making my marriage work and we did a lot of talking and really getting to know each other the first year I had a boyfriend.
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