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    Managing sleep

    It eventually settles down but if I were you I'd say no sleeping over Sunday night and you guest needs to leave at a reasonable hour. I need at least 6:hours sleep so if I'm amped up I'll take a sleep aid if need be.
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    I find the opposite to be true, no metamore means no dealing with all the drama that comes with it
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    Sad. Metamour says no.

    Well it's probably most likely that they have to focus on parenting amd not on outside relationships. I have 2 small kids at home and I take my kids with me when I see my boyfriend. Could that be an option? My husband wasn't willing to get stuck caring for kids alone while I went out and had...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    I just don't date people who have live in partners because I need to be able to spend the night at a partners home at least weekly to date them. Husband usually goes and has sex with people at their house but another option could be splitting cost of motel rooms. One of his fuck buddies takes...
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    Advice on a Metamour and how to deal with my feelings

    I would feel abused just witnessing that, even if it was directed at me. I grew up in an alcoholic family with lots of fighting going on so I'm especially sensitive to thatv
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    Dealing with partner's "honeymoon phase" with their new partners??

    I'm going to tell you that i don't think this is a good time for him to seek others, when the baby comes you are going to need him to be there. You are also going to be going through a lot of hormonal changes as it it. He's your partner and you are pregnant and then you will be caring for an...
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    New to Polyamory and Fearful of Future Partners

    I think you need to find someone that you are compatibe with you might love your high school sweetheart but the fact is you guys aren't sexually compatible and that's a pretty big deal. I suggest you guys remain friends vut you find a different romantic relationship
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    Where and how did you meet your partners?

    Yea he's currently doing a kickstarter for his latest graphic novel. He also has a personal goal of creating a magic card a day for 2015. We travel the Midwest going to comic conventions where he sells his stuff
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    Where and how did you meet your partners?

    Nate messaged me on MySpace 7 years ago, he had just moved back to thr area and was adding friends to promote his comic. I gave him my number and we talked about 5000 minutes (according to my phone record) before we met and it was love at first sight. My boyfriend and I met almost 4 years...
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    Advice on a Metamour and how to deal with my feelings

    I would probably only agree to be around her if there isn't drinking going on. I'm inclined to think that because it's happened multiple times in the very short time they've been together that this is probably normal behavior for her when she's drunk. As far as getting past the trauma only...
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    Informational Privacy

    My partners hear everything, I don't accept secrets unless they agree it's okay to share with them. If it's not okay I just tell them not to tell me. My partners know I share everything with my best friends and they pretty much tell me everything as well.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    This also takes the pressure off me because I won't be expected to give him equal time, especially when I have so much other stuff going on that I have to take care of.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    This also takes the pressure off me, because I won't be expected to give him equal time, especially when I have so much other stuff going on that I have to take care of.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    I guess the plan is he'll eventually find a girlfriend. I figure once he moves somebody in with him, then we will stop seeing each other, since we will no longer have a place to spend the night together that point. Plus he's monogamous. I don't really think he can handle being with somebody else...
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    Siblings

    Mom was drinking, I went out for a but and shw straddled nate on the couch and started tonguing him lol. I just told nate no and didn't talk to my mom about it because i figured nate could turn her down if she happened to hit on him again
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    Siblings

    My mom made out with nate a few years ago when she visited, I had to put the kabash on that. Sharing a lover with a family member grosses me out
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    According to Sam, we aren't really broken up-- he's just playing along. I flat out told him I do not want more kids and that I will not have a kid to keep him.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Thanks. :) I'll miss Sam's friendship, but ultimately he wants things I can't give him, and I'm tired of him belittling my husband and throwing my marriage in my face.
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    Fluid bonding/No condoms

    I have to disagree qith you, I think the majority of people see fluid bonding as a milestone esp when they are still on the relationship escalator
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    Openly poly?

    I doubt your midwife would care that you are poly, I haven't met anyone who cared and I'm open to everyone
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