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*this has nothing to do with who "mom is having sex with ". This is about giving them time to adjust to mom being in a relationship and eventually moving him in. You don't just move a family friend into the house and go " oh by the way I'm poly now and we're in a relationship "the 12 year...

I agree with this 100%.

No but you openly date your partner and slowly integrate them into the family after several months before bringing up group family discussions about moving into the new home. If the child is that adement against it after all that then go to family therapy to work through it together...

Whatever the grown-ups want right? Kids just don't have any say what goes on in their life, its sad how rare parents actually factor them into decisions that affect their life

Yep, lots of patience. There was a lot of married women on Craigslist who have posted that they are married and looking for a female partner, your wife should try there

When people say "first world problems ". There's no need to be rude, simply keep your comments to yourself if you don't have something nice to say. No matter how small the problem every one has the right to vent and not feel like they are going to be judged for it

Smelling cigarettes Tailgating Driving too slow. When people post on threads to just say asshole Shit that isnt helpful like "oh big surprise, you had sex and got pregnant " People who are late all the time

Nate and I considered getting bee tattoos our maybe I'd get honey comb while he gets a bee

If he's that possessive that you can't even hang out with anyone then I doubt he would be willing to open up the relationship. You've also shown him that you are willing to jump ship if you meet someone you really like (you left your boyfriend for him) so he's not going to feel very secure...

Yes, you are entitled to any freedoms she has. I think a discussion where you tell her "because agreements that we made are no longer being honored then I think we need to abolish the agreements and renegotiate terms that are fair for both. My husband likes having muhave ltiple casual sexual...

From your post it sounds like you are upset that she's not allowing you to control her other relationship. You want her to stop because you arbitrarily want her to. Sounds like she's becoming poly when you want her to be a swinger.

How would you feel if he started dating someone else and eventually became their boyfriend too?

Yeah she sounds a little narcissistic by wanting ALL the ccredit of your personal growth. I think she should have asked where it was posted before ASSuming it was LJ and while she doesn't want her image being sullied she could have simply asked you to remove that instead of going off on you...

At this point you can't control her anymore. She doesn't want your permission to do what she wants. I agree you can either except that the dynamic has changed between you two and work on your own emotions regarding the change or you can dissolve your relationship with her. You aren't her boss...

Certainly, the agreement can change when both are willing. It's like having children, both have to agree or the change isn't made, if having children is important to one then they need to decide to either stay without children or leave so they can have children. He has to decide if having...

A lot of people are calling it "entangled and non entangled ". For when you live with one partner and not the other. You basically have two boyfriends, one who you see more often than the other.

For your kids the timeline starts when you are openly his girlfriend. If you are in the closet then the year they've known him as a family friend just doesn't count.

How did you get so close to a person who doesn't communicate with you?

Well he agreed to monogamy when they married. He really is choosing his happiness because they have an agreement. He doesn't sound poly at all, he sounds like a sex addict who is unhappy with his wife not putting out enough. He wants to have carte Blanche to fuck anyone he wants with his...

I allowed my ex to explore, when I wanted to I was told only a closed triad with a bisexual female. I begged for years to have a girlfriend but he refused. When I met my husband I told him I wanted an open relationship and he agreed so I left my ex for someone more compatible. I don't...