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Thanks for your input Kevin. I am going to bring up the seeming inconsistencies with him as it is concerning to me. He and I have actively been working on our communication as we've been a bit assumptive with one another which has lead to misunderstandings and unnecessary upset. Since him...

I'm a bit of a lurker here but I've been following your blog. A lot of what you say really resonates with me. I too have a hard time figuring out the non-escalator stuff. I'm glad the two of you communicated and are figuring out things together!

Thanks Leetah, I have read Claire's blog. A lot of what she says really resonates with me because I didn't realise that I want more entanglement with Wolf. It kind of snuck up on me.

In most of these cases i felt we were both on the same page about it being more than casual chitchat. Most of the times that I'm thinking of, we were having a discussion about the future. But yes, I agree that he may not really be realising how what he's saying is sounding to me. He does have...

Yes, I think this is exactly what I'm feeling. I will bring it up to him, next time we are together. Saying one thing and doing the opposite is a thing my abusive ex used to do, this is most likely why it's such a trigger for me and why my brain won't leave it alone. Often, when Wolf does...

Well, she's not a single parent but yes I agree that spending more time with her would lead to meeting her kids. This is not what I have issue with. I'm really concerned with him saying that he wanted nothing to do with them and then, when telling me that he was going to meet them that he always...

Yes I've read your posts and there definitely are some similarities there.

Thank you for your reply. You have given me some things to think about. I don't have a need to know. We talk about what we are doing during the time that we are not together on a regular basis. We regularly tell each other who we are hanging out with, this is how our relationship works. It is...

So my partner, Wolf, told me tonight that he's meeting his other girlfriend's (let's call her Lynn) kids. The fact that he's meeting them is really bothering me. It's not so much that he's meeting them, more that he told me, when he and Lynn started dating that he wanted absolutely nothing to do...

Oh my god! I don't even know what to say. I don't post much, but I've been following you. I'm so sorry for your loss, I couldn't even imagine being in your place. Give Tails some space and hopefully he'll come back to you when he's ready..

I'm with everyone above that says why not online dating? I've met some great people (including my amazing partner) on OKC and the bonus is that they already know that you're poly, if you include that in your profile

I'm out to my whole family, most of my friends and at work. It was a non issue telling my mum, she just kind of shrugged and went back to doing her jigsaw puzzle. The only question she asked was if my partner treated me well. I told her that he did. She was happy with that. My partner (I only...

Well said! I'm glad that I didn't have to deal with my family not accepting my poly relationships. But if I had, I would hope to be able to say it with as much grace and quiet passion as you. You are speaking your truth and that is admirable.:) I hope your father comes around. Maybe he just...

I'm so ready to give up on online dating! I'm so frustrated. 😖 It seems like every single person that sends me a message turns out to be a giant doucherocket or or they just ghost after a short time! I get quite a few messages, most of them seem alright to begin with. Alright enough that we get...

So I've been really struggling recently with my moods and trying to keep balanced. My brain keeps coming up with worst case scenarios about everything. Particularly my relationship. I'm feeling so lonely these days. I know that wolf loves me but it's just not enough. I often think I would be...

My life has been ticking along. I really don't have much to write about. My anxiety gets the better of me from time to time but I'm controlling that through the wonders of modern medicine. Tonight I'm going to karaoke with my partner, his wife and some of their friends. I have met his wife...

I've been struggling with what to write here. I have so many thoughts and emotions running through my head right now that I'm so confused and can't really seem to put it in to words. I'm overwhelmed with my own emotions, I'm trying to deal with them. My partner is a big time fixer and doesn't...

I totally get this. There's this little voice in my brain telling me the exact same things. I know it's not rational but sometimes you just can't help the emotions. I just keep telling myself that I'm being silly and re-read some recent messages that my partner has sent me telling me how he...

Hey there I'm a bi poly woman living in BC Canada. I used to post on this site a little bit but it's been a long while. Recently I've been lurking and reading quite a bit and decided to become a part of the community. I make beer for a living(my dream job), live with 3 housemates and my 2...

It's been a very long time since I last posted here. Life has been interesting. I just started a new job at a local craft brewery, the brewmaster is teaching me and another woman (who happens to be a friend of mine)the ins and outs of the industry. It's all pretty boring to the average human...