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WOW! He acuses you of making "American" assumptions about his culture then turns around and says he knows about your family's dating practices because he watches t.v. LOL!! If this guy was any more full of himself he'd have to stop and loosen his belt.

I'm in a MFF V and I couldn't imagine not being physically intimate with both F's Edit: what I mean is, I can't imagine one partner trying to limit my activities with the other partner. Maybe my wife but wouldn't she just veto the GF or ask to close the marriage rather than say I can date my GF...

Just a guy chiming in here. After reading this whole thread twice I came to these conclusions. 1. After a year of dating you aren't very important to him. 2. Something else is going on. He's lying, cheating or BOTH. Things are not adding up. He's saying those things about the younger woman...

Everything seems to have righted itself. Had a great reconnecting weekend with wife. She's apologized a million times for getting too crazy. GF and I are getting full tests this week so any communicable worries will be laid to rest too.

I'm the opposite of tenK and the OP. Smelling another lover on my partner is sooo HOT! But that's the key: figuring out what excites you both and what doesn't. Focus on the good parts.

You could ask him how his wife feels about him sharing their intimate details? Might make him think twice if he's sharing stuff that he hasn't discussed with her or she wouldn't want him to.

GalaGirl giving some great advice. I'd rather not be involved in a deception relationship either. +1

GREAT feedback... from everyone. THANK YOU!! Day-by-day things are looking better. wife is calm after getting support in her own poly community and sharing with other poly people instead of keeping everything bottled up. Wife and I have a plan to be safe until testing results are in. GF is...

she's fallen for me like I have her. she's mono and has no desire to date but she's still looking for "the one" that she wouldn't have to share. we talk every day about what's going on. My wife's been dating since May 2015. She's been with 7 or 8 guys (sexually) and been on at least a dozen...

The average person-on-the-street does not have the knowledge or training to help someone in a DEEP DEPRESSION! Please seek out a trained counselor or medical professional. As for W & B, sounds like it was more than FWB or they wouldn't have gotten so hurt.

My point exactly. Truth in labeling is important.

Yes. She JUST mentioned that issue in a long phone discussion yesterday. I never dreamed she would feel that way. It was never discussed. She feels that fluid exchange is an intimate thing that we would ONLY share between each other. If that's so, why did we ever discuss getting tested and a...

1. if you have feelings of inadequacy, perhaps it better if you don't watch them. 2. it's perfectly acceptable for you to be mono and her poly. Then you're more into a "hotwife" relationship. There are sites specifically devoted to this. 3. if she's specifically into men 20 years younger it...

we always know with whom and where the other partner is going. if someone ends up going home with someone we get the address in a text but beyond that it's usually open. That allows for a wide range of flexibility. sometimes I get a text at 1am that she's coming home, sometimes it not till...

Yes, I told her. No intimacy since the incident.

I F'ed up. After 6 weeks of dating I started having unprotected sex with my gf... AHEAD of our scheduled testing date. I trust her, I know her sexual history and that it's been 8 months since her last encounter and that she used protection. It doesn't help that we've fallen in love. None of...

I'm on deep shit too I started seeing a secondary in Dec. Since my wife lives in a different state I spend a LOT of time with my gf. Fast forward to now... We've fallen in love and my wife is FURIOUS and hurt. She's been dating since last May and says she NEVER gets that close to her dates...

I imagine the speed at which new partners are fluid bonded (if at all) is totally subjective and a personal decision. I'm curious about what sort of exam/screenings most people on these forums get. Honestly, I've never had a STI test so excuse my ignorance. Do they offer these at any walk-in...

Holy shit! She's got some sort of death-grip on your husband. I'd never let a GF run my life like that, or disrespect my wife. Bottom-line is: how much are you and he willing to take from this woman?

That's how it looks to me. How close are you? How often do you talk and share? I could confirm your thoughts that he's being a "shitcan" but you know what? It wouldn't matter. If he wants to cut you out, even for a few months, then it's time to dust yourself off and move on.