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Hey thank you for all your input and replies! I really appreciate you taking the time to make me feel welcome. :)

Thank you SO much for all the replies! :) It does help and I appreciate the clarification, especially the terms to look up for more info @Spork !

This VERY much jives with me! Thank you :)

Thank you!! I think you're right and it was mentioned already that this is so new I'm not thinking with my A game so to speak. I should just wait to see how he navigates things a bit. Who knows, he might surprise me :p *so happy with all the input. Thank you so much everyone! <3

needs are associated with our psychological security. Think of the question, what is it in this relationship, or life in general, that I work HARD at? Now let's say it's looking good (for the sake of simplicity). Let's say you work hard to look amazing for your partner(s). Now let's take the...

Keeping on the down low was reference to my potential partners additional hookups or fwb situations where there's no romance per se. I'm incredibly aware and sensitive to other people's feelings only that I'm at a point in my life where I need to take great care of my feelings as I do others (I...

Thank you for taking the time to post your welcomes. I very much needed that. :)

*raises hand sheepishly* ... stubborn goat here :p:o but I happen to be a skeptic with astrology despite its description fitting me. there's just no science behind it whatsoever. even enneagram (which has spiritual roots) has been intertwined with westernized psychology in depth so has its...

I think I'll fit this in our next convo with my lists in hand hahaha, then who knows, he'll be booking for the door! :p really though, I appreciate these questions. because I need to learn what these things are for me as well as have a deeper understanding what they are for him too. really...

SUPER AWESOME SUGGESTIONS!! ... For me at least. However here I've been trying to enjoy the moments because I'm often so serious! hahaha, but maybe you're right. maybe it's okay to just be the serious me (for now). He's a "in the now" type of person which is good for me but I think maybe my...

no apologies necessary! your response was the most direct and level headed and you're so right ... I am getting carried away getting into thinking about all these things because I'm so into him, when really ... I'm in that honeymoon phases LOL!! Damn. I hate when that happens when you don't...

thanks for the sweet reply :) Not all introverts are the same (as with extroverts). Some are very social oriented with gossip (not to be used with negative connotation) and others abhor gossip and small chat. some introverts are more in touch with the feels and others not. I tend to always pair...

True. I think the reason I got caught up in the first place is because he made a point several times to say how he allocates his time to whomever is more important to him. What am I supposed to do with that? I don't experience things the same way. I can go weeks at a time and not talk to someone...

Thank you so much for this reply. For me, I'm pretty asexual unless I have a deep connection (which is so rare but special and I do enjoy it). For me though, unlike many typical oriented people, I tend to love on a deep level all people I make connections with. I have that "I love humanity but...

Such as demisexual, asexual, sapiosexual, LGB, trans, or want not. and how do you think that manifests in your choice to be poly? * for me, I do not know if I fit the bill for traditionally sapio but I think for sure that's there in my temperment along with demi .. if I have an emotional...

Thank you for posting this article! :) For the sake of sharing, my answers: 1. Do you want an open relationship? Not sure if this constitutes as wanting but I have always been most comfortable when my partner has free reign sexually (and I if I want though it's never happened due to lack of...

Thank you so much for the reply!! <3 I was beginning to feel like a total outsider. SO many of the posts here are primarily from poly folks and the only mono/poly things I've read are not very inviting either :/ I appreciate you making the point to say hello :)

There you are ... I was looking for this thread like this to pick at ... and it's all sad :(

I have no idea what I am or what my threshold is frankly ... new to it irl. However, I was in the global studies program early in college which is where I first learned of it. I have had several friends (including myself) that have had no problems with Open relationships. Which equates to a...

For what it's worth, just an irl experience to share - My best friend has a child and is with a man (as his second wife) and the first still lives with them with her two children (same dad). They tell people in the neighborhood the first wife is her child's aunt (the child knows this and it's...