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I've never had a casual fling, the idea of it doesn't appeal to me really. Actually sitting here thinking I realized I've never dated either. I had boyfriends and a couple of girlfriends in high school, met my husband right before I graduated. Got married, had a meet up but no sex with a chick...

Hey Kevin, Do any of you live together? So basically it takes time..

I'm now reading your blog and your husband's lol, thank you!! I started reading more then two a few weeks ago, but haven't had much time to sit down and get into it since. This forum is addicting hehe. He is not open generally not because he isn't honest or has nothing to say he just has a hard...

Hi Luna, I think I read another post where you are moving to their country and trying to figure out who to marry, boho in my opinion, and you guys will all live together? That sounds so exciting!! I'm happy for you! My husband says he is content as well and while his sex drive is normal/high...

Hi Dagferi, How did you open up your marriage to poly? Are your husband's mono or just not seeing anyone else? How do you treat someone new the same as a husband of some time? You said you treat then equally, but.. idk I guess I think of friendships I've had over the years, friends with more...

I've seen a good amount of recent posts, or at least people recently commenting on posts, where a longish term marriage or relationship is moving into being polyamorous. Some ended in divorce, others successful, some had both partners interested others had only one. How many people here have...

I'm 32, young ish? He was my first, I'd had boyfriends and a few girlfriends before him but no sex because of religious beliefs. However my convincing factor that I am a poly minded person is the fact that I was not faithful to anyone before him, and was often in several relationships at once...

What happened and Marvelgirl... I literally just realized a mistake I made, I was so confused as to why you both kept saying he said no. Okay years ago he shot down the idea. This last year when I brought it up he said He does not want to, and by that I mean he is not interested in dating...

We do both have a lot on our plates, a lot. And even though he has said over and over that the cheating no longer affects him I know it does because it still bothers me. We were in such a dark place at the time I didn't think he would mind. Which was stupid of me. What I say in each post which...

Thank you! Oh I know I'm the pot. That was my reasoning actually, he writes the way I talk, fast and streaming, thoughts all over and messing with people. I usually have no problem sifting through posts like that because it's my language. I do with his so... I figure if I'm having trouble...

Hi! We talked about that part my husband doesn't want to know or meet or anything. The guy lives in Cali so couldn't be a part of my every day, and I don't really know if I'd want that anyways. I'd be fine going out in public and stuff but I can't yet invision having someone be an actual part of...

Ravencroft I was waiting for/dreading your response. Thank you for your response it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I've been creeping around on the site for a bit and reading everything I can when it pertains to marriage and or family. Your posts can be quite good, or way too blunt, my...

HA!! No one ever says holy crap, besides me. He's agreed but upon the condition that I get self defense training. I said more because my previous career was in psych, since I worked on a hospital psych unit I had tons of self defense ish training. It was all to evade or get out of holds and then...

Your totally right libertinelover.. Libertinelover:I'm glad his response was encouraging and I hope it works out for you. I'm not at all surprised by his reluctance though, because what's in it for him? That's actually one of my main concerns. If he's reluctantly giving in, I imagine it's...

I was thinking about this this morning... And then found this thread open in my tabs. My daughter turned eleven today, and we are still in the talking phase. Even though not much talking has been happening because my husband sleeps when he is home. I don't know that he wants to talk about it...

Unappologeticallypoly, I'm so sorry you were touched without your consent. There is nothing wrong with how you are feeling and it was not your fault. It was his. This is a hard situation considering how long you have been with them and the nature of your gfs mental state. I can see how after the...

Update... So I finally talked to my husband. He was very very sarcastic at first. And kept brining up polygamy and how he could use a few more wives. But I rolled with it and persisted and then let it go for the night. He's the type that has to think about things for a while, mull. So yesterday...

That's a valid point lol, I meant my family, people related. But if they needed somewhere to go I'd bring them to my brothers I just wouldn't be able to be open about it. Like explaining who it actually is and being physically intimate with him or her.

Took me a second to find it. Then I rechecked the online "book" I was looking at. https://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html#polyamory-faq "Polyamory is defined by*informed consent of all the participants.*Without it, it ain’t poly. If you can’t invite your lover over to Thanksgiving dinner...

That's what I was thinking.. Literally one said, if you can't invite them for thanksgiving dinner then it isn't poly... that threw me a bit because I have zero intention of announcing it. I talked to my online guy about what I want as far as him being openly with me, open to his wife and my...