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Those are great boundaries. A few of the articles I've linked to from this thread said that if your not open about it to everyone then it isn't poly. Why is that? I personally wouldn't want to be out in the open with it. I wouldn't want to have to explain my relationships to people or involve a...

I know lol, he's the father he would be spending time with her not "watching" her and if we were keeping track he has a deficit anyways. She's 10, but over the past few years I've been gone a lot in the evening anyways, with school or work or just going out with friends. So I guess it wouldn't...

That's a really informative article! The tone was a bit negative you could read between the lines that the writer had been through all of it with a negative outcome so I'm not sure if have my husband read it lol. But I learned from it, thank you!!

I really don't expect to magically change his mind. I guess I could give a time line for clarity. The affair happened in the end of 2012. So it has been a little bit of time. It's been 9 months since I started bringing up open marriage again which he had always been completely opposed to, but...

There seems to be a good amount of marriages with poly wives and mono husbands. First off can anyone recommend some books for me to read and pass on to my husband, things available on kindle and audio? Pertaining to jealousy and maybe just general understanding of what it's like to be a...

Where to begin... "You guys can divorce on paper, while still living together, that way you both are free to go your own ways as needed." @Vinsanity, Yes I've brought that up. He said he couldn't handle living and loving me and basically presenting a lie to our kid and everyone else. We live...

Thank you for the advice! No we have not tried a marriage counselor, he's always been unwilling when I've brought it up. I've actually skirted around saying that a few times. I told him I don't think I'm a monogamous person at my core that I am poly. Then I had to explain what that was and he...

I think I've always been... I'm new here, second post first still pending. While writing the first one it occurred to me that I have always had a polyamorous mindset. Even in my youth, in high school my long time boyfriend was perplexed when i would randomly just make out with people men and...

Aloha all. I need advice. This is going to be long but I'll try to keep it on point. So first some background, I am married have been for 13 going on 14 years. I'm early 30s we have a kid. I realized I'm bisexual somewhere around 22. I had always been but was raised in a religious environment...