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  1. MichelleT

    Vanilla Bean

    To those who have previously viewed my conversations, I have another question to ask being new to all of this! I asked the couple I'm involved with, many questions about what's involved, reactions and stuff like that. All of my questions have been via text. Because I'm only available to see...
  2. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    On the first date that I had with him it was just to see if we both got along, both clicked, stuff like that. The rule was that there was to be no intercourse, involved only kissing. Then when I went over to meet her for all 3 of us to meet up, that's when we all intertwined with each other...
  3. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    We had only 1 "date", And a couple nights later it was all 3 of just so she can meet me. When me and him went on our first date, he was showing me pictures of the place he wanted to go to, and I said it looked beautiful I would love to see it "sometime", and then he suggested well I'm going...
  4. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    Right now I'm just laying back.... and let him contact me instead of me bombarding him with all types of questions or concerns. If honesty and openness are what is very important to them, then I'm thinking I will hear from him when he is ready
  5. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    They're not really swingers, is what they both told me. They like their "circle" small, meaning she has 3 lovers, and I believe what she had said is she loves 2 of them but is more friends with the other one and he only has 1 that he solo dates and I'm the second 1 to come in! Our first solo...
  6. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    Kevin T. She has been Poly, I'm not sure how long I think it's been years and she brought him into it when they started dating.
  7. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    Kevin T., This couple has been dating for 2 years, the guy that is with her has known about her Poly situation during that time and they've had couples nights, went out to certain venues, blah blah,. The only thing that is really new with both of them is having solo dates! Meaning they've only...
  8. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    You all have had great input for me to consider! I really appreciate it! I've pretty much detached myself from any feelings, before any of this happened just so it'll be easier when I see things aren't going positively.
  9. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    I am referencing the same couple. I just worded it differently in both places. My thing is, they are new to doing this, only a couple of months, maybe a month into it. She's been into it longer than her boyfriend. The thing I'm having a little bit hard time understanding is he was so gung ho in...
  10. MichelleT

    Vanilla bean

    I am new to this whole Poly thing. I've always been interested in it and Have enjoyed my solo time with him and loved it with all 3 of us together. I recently met up with a couple that I completely adore both of them, they're new into doing solo stuff, And I just don't know how to handle when...
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