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I don't have a lot of advice to give but this is something you clearly should've talked about before you got married ♡ Him saying that you should be ok with it bc he has "already told u" he's poly is a simplification of what it means to be poly. Someone being poly does not mean they are...

And also, we have never asked them to move here. We have all said the distance is hard but they are the one who both brought it up and wanted to take steps toward it happening. Me and nesting partner are supportive but not at all pushy.

They're moving for other reasons as well!

Yes, thank you. Mostly if I have questions or thoughts about polyamory these days I search in different forums to see if someone has experienced the same thing. I find it pretty soothing to read other peoples thoughts on the matter. But like you said, it's important to stay informed. Yeah, I...

Thank you, yes I think that's Thank you for your thoughts, I will take them all into consideration. Cheyenne plans on moving to our city in the future but no one knows when. Which means it could be this year or in two years, time will tell. I don't think it's likely that both them and their...

I will sit down and read them when i have the time ^^ Yes, the triad is kinda just happenstance. All of our individual relationships look very different and it's nice to feel that someone is with you because of you, rather than just seeing our relationship as solely a triad. I feel...

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A little over a year, but we stated we're a couple/ throuple in around august last year. We did not expect to fall in love but realized quite quickly we were all catching feelings. Yes, I started reading through one of them. When we started going into a triad, I started reading up on what is...

And thank you for your advice ♡

I have looked around for a similar threads but haven't found one. We are very good at nursing our separate and combined relationships. The problem is time, not the dynamic. We met Cheyenne together and had been living together for about 2 years by then. So yes, you might be correct about them...

Yeah, let me rephrase, I just want us to spend time together as if it was just a regular day. Not a specific activity. If they were in a living situation rn where that was possible I would gladly do so. If I were to start dating again I would do so separately and preferably locally yes.

This sounds like a good way to go about it. I've been able to talk some to my nesting partner about it and they understand. I've mentioned to ldr partner who gave me kind of a non-response/ very open response. I'm guessing they don't want to feel like they would prioritize one partner instead...

Hi, I'm in a solid ldr triad. Me and my nesting partner share an ldr partner. And due to many different reasons we can't see each other often. Which means not in several months at a time sometimes. My nesting partner has a very loose schedule and is home or at least very flexible most of the...