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Thanks Galagirl, You have given me much food for thought. I am not a stressy person generally, I am very go with the flow, so I am not sure why this particular situations has got me like it has. I think maybe I have been feeding off some of MrJ's stress and I can now see I need to just let him...

Thank you for the replies. You're all right, maybe I am worrying about this for no reason. I am a very laid back person and I just detest drama llamas, I haven't got time for that crap, so maybe I have been trying to make things "right" instead of just letting it be what it will be. Maybe we...

Thanks for the blunt clarity :)

So, things have been going really well in our little cosy shuffling into polyland. MrJ has finally settled down, MrsJ and I have become really good friends, much to MrJ's amusement sometimes. I will preface this by saying I am a 16 hour flight away from the J's. MrsJ is well and truely...

At the end of the day, it isn't actually a drama for me...I just don't want to be put in the position of having to lie. We had a big talk on the weekend. He knows exactly how I feel and that if I am asked I won't lie. He knows he has to say something but he is such a big softy, he doesn't want...

Thanks for the replies. I am of that opinion and thought he should have said when she flat out asked (I was video chatting with him and his wife at the time she messaged him) But he deflected the question with an "Why would it make a difference if I was?" to her. She does know he is married and...

Bear with me as this is kind of complicated. So I am new to poly relationships and have sort of fallen into this but with a giant leap of faith there at the end. My partner and I are long distance. We video chat every day and randomly message throughout. He and his wife have totally embraced...