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Oh, gods, yes. We're communicating left right and center, more than we ever have before. We have the most functional relationship I've ever seen in a couple, to, (as is clear,) the extant that when he falls in love with another woman, my response is, "Okay, here's why, now let's see how we can...

Well, good, because I didn't want to say something that wildly offended someone and their innate polyness, e.g. if I said that someone could change or something. I've had that difficulty with transgenders (some of whom can be quite militant) using the wrong nomenclature for something and having...

Okay, this has been new to me. Is being polyamourous a Thing, like being homosexual, or is it a something that happens to you, like you just happened to fall in love with two people at the same time? Because I always felt like it was just the kind of accident that happens when a bunch of people...

Thank you, mmkeekah. I hope I can deal with this, and I'm trying. It's just very strange to me still, so far. On a personal level. On an intellectual level, I've had this thought experiment all the time. Actually, since we had had this discussion before it happened, I'm very glad that we...

626 I have focused on the positive. I like the idea. Intellectually. It's the uncontrollable bits that are annoying. Thank you, though.

But what if it gets worse? And how long does it last? My current husband eased the grief of my last husband, but I was still only semi-functional, bleak and bitter for nearly a year. (You can see how understanding he is.) I still suffer grief spikes from my last husband, mostly when his daughter...

My husband recently fell in love with another woman. She's a sweetie, and this experience has done wonderful things for our relationship -- we're more open, more receptive, and more certain of how solid our relationship is. And the sex has been better. I'm very aware of human biology, and he's...