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I agree. I may not like it... but yeah, it's true and it's one of the things that keeps tripping us up. I thought we were fine before and so did she... Turns out I wasn't. And why we bother? Love, I suppose... It's always there, even in the darkest moments. There's always a spark which guides...

Thanks! That's really helpfull

A lot, basically every boundary crossed, rules broken, you name it... And I know, to each their own, everyone has different boundaries. But to me the words "Only what we agree on, never hurt you, our love is the basis, our home must be safe,the kids never involved" and of course "safe sex"...

Yeah, I say that a lot ; the idea of polyamory is much easier to grasp then to practice it. I hope Tinwen is right, but at the moment I feel so overwhelmed by al the drama, confessions,realisations (including mine) and painful discoveries of each others boundaries, I don't honestly know how to...

Hi people, I'm really searching for answers online and so is my wife; She is trying to meet a therapist who specialises in polyamory relations. I just want to know is it common? The situation is like this; My wife is in a new relationship since two and a halve month and the NRE is rampant. I...

I feel much better now. Thanks to your advice. I pointed out the poly hell piece to her. She responded quite well to it. She recognized what's happening between us. And helped organise our own date-night. I feel loved and appriciated . This a really a warm community. I'll stick around. Amro

Thanks You all really helping me. Putting things in perspective, giving me ways to adress these problems. Yesterday morning we talked and in the end she admitted we need our couple time too. Which we scheduled for Friday nights. So, that felt good and resolved. And last night I almost walked...

Thanks for the advice and insights. Made me feel a bit less brittle. I'm not sure about having another lover in my life but I could definitely be more pro-active about doing stuff outside of the family. When I go places I usually take the kids (or the youngest) along. My wife wants me to...

Started writing, stopped, started again. So, here I am late at night, tears brimming in my eyes; It's jealousy, I know, just jealousy. My wife started seeing someone new a couple of weeks ago after a rather clumsy and messy fling/relation a year before. ("It's like he is a soul-mate") It...