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Thanks for the concern and advice, Spork. She is in Michigan so there isn't much chance of me running into her locally. I tried to search for her, just to kind of check and didn't find her, so it's all good. Thanks for the advice on the events, too.

No worries. I appreciate the friend request or whatever.

Request sent Sent the request. Thanks. Finding friends, going cold into something like this, is like fishing without bait.

Went ahead and pulled the trigger OK, I took a look at Fetlife and based on what I could see, there is little chance of running into "her" unless I try. That isn't going to happen. However, I have no friends on there, so if anyone feels so inclined, add me or send a request or however, it...

Thanks for the reply and the compassion, Shaya. I avoid it for her comfort and for my sanity. We were best friends, or so I thought, for years and then boom! I get dropped like a hot rock. Yes, I care for her but this type of treatment cannot be acceptable in any manner. I have put it...

Wow, I learned a TON just from this thread alone. It's nice to know I'm not the only one out there that lost their damn mind trying to figure this out. The OP was very informative and had many similarities to me. The responses were excellent information for me. I think I shall like it here. :)

Thanks, Kevin. I have seen several on here refer to fetlife and suggest that. I want to add that I am not on fetlife because I do not want to risk running into her. I do not know that it would even happen, but that is my stance at the moment. I want to respect her space and I fear that...

Well, let's see, where to start? I am a noob on the forum (and to the concept) from the great state of Oklahoma. I was married for many years and life just took over. We separated and I have been focusing on my kids. Long story short, I was very recently in a relationship with a woman who...