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We have a schedule. I have 2 nights with her, 2 with him, 2 by myself, and 1 with all of us, on a weekly basis. We would all spend every night together, but our kids are still young and seek us out in the middle of the night.

Galagirl- thank you so much for those links. I wish we'd had them when we started this but they will still be a good way to open dialogue.

And it's gone. This led to a huge crisis of faith for her, wondering if this is what she even wanted at all or if she was only doing it to make us happy. After soul searching and meeting with our fantastic counselor she decided that it is and she can let go of that. Her fears weren't actually...

So we talked, and it went fairly well. She understands how I feel, even my concerns about feeling second best when that is not the relationship we signed up for. She gets how inherently unfair it is and feels a lot of guilt about it. That said, she isn't ready, and I don't want to push her, so I...

I went along with it because she is my best friend and we are new at this. None of us even knew the term polyamory. We just fell in love. It wasn't until we started reading and researching that we realized those sorts of boundaries didn't have to exist, and they don't necessarily help their...

So far, our triad has worked amazingly well. I have never felt happier or safer in my life. There has been very little jealousy and lots of compersion. We are all happy. My female partner started off with several boundaries for her husband and me. She quickly dropped all but one. He and I are...

A year seemed like this huge dream goal when my daughter was born and now I am still nursing a three year old. My gf tandem nursed hers until nearly four and 18 months. Once you hit six months it is cake. I am ready to be done now though. I have to admit that poly and attachment parenting have...

This sounds a bit like us I lived with my best friend and her family while I was going through a break-up, and then as a single mom of a two year old. One day we joked about just becoming poly. A few days later we realized we were in love and not joking, and a month later we were a triad...