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He asked this question. He told me he knew we might have to stop being lovers but he had never foreseen losing his best friend. To be honest, I would love to stay friends with him. But how am I to stop loving him if we are constantly chatting and talking? I am not sure how it would work out.

Hey everybody! As promised, a short post to keep you updated. I broke up with my boyfriend today. We met and had a talk. It wasn't a fight, it wasn't a disagreement. Just two people very much in love letting go of each other. I am still in awe of the love and respect he showed me tonight. I...

Sorry for the delay in my answer, I have been pretty sick for the last few days. Thanks a lot to all of you for your very helpful answers. I still have a lot to process as you provided a lot of food for thoughts in your posts. This is my first poly relationship and I don't always know how to...

Thanks a lot FallenAngelina. I truly believe that the only one who can deal with those insecurities is me, and in that you are right. I never wanted my hubby to fight my battles but he did play a major role in making me acknowledge the fact I needed to deal with those insecurities. And I...

This is absolutely true. I think I would have felt more comfortable if I could have sat down and asked him if it was okay to talk rather than breaking down and dumping that on him. I am sorry to hear you are struggling too. I can only imagine how hard it must be to work 10 min away from each...

Thanks to you both for your warm answers. I understand your point. I think the problem was that 1) I didn't really considered it a LDR at first. It seemed close enough to see each other every other week without being a strain on the relationship - maybe living in a world of expats seeing...

Hey Everyone! I am a new poster here (although I have been lurking for quite some time now) so I am gonna first begin by a (not so) short introduction. I have been married to my husband for 7 years now but we've starting dating 12 years ago (I was quite young and inexperienced when I met...