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    feeling lonely.

    Moving in with each other has been discussed but I'm not sure of how serious they are about it, as it seems to be just talk since no action has been done. And I am allowed to see them but my work schedule and my children keep me busy and so it's difficult. I have mentioned to them that they...
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    feeling lonely.

    Okay, I've been seeing a great couple for about 9 months now. Most of the time we have a great time together. We all get along great. But lately I've been feeling lonely. We only really see each other on the weekends or rather Friday night and Saturday and then I go back to my house. We/they...
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    Someone Pinch me....

    My Birthday........ So I see that people on this sight don’t tend to use real names here to protect the identity of people and keeping that in mind as well as my love for Doctor Who I will refer to my primary lovers as The Doctor and Rose and my secondary lover as Captain Jack, as he was once...
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    Someone Pinch me....

    Hello, everyone. I have been in a polyamorous relationship with a wonderful couple for just over 5 months now. It has been very exciting and a little trying at times. We are all kind of in a disbelief that we are able to make this work. One of my partners is a life time friend, my best friend...
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    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    LovingRadiance, You're correct, she could not make him do something that he did not want to do. Thank you for pointing that out to me.
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    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    GalaGirl Of course i asked about rule up front. There were only 2 rules "safe sex" and not in her bed. And of course since they are not out poly we needed to be discrete. "You too sound a bit newbie/not owning it too. Why say "Maybe I should walk away then" and giving ownership of your...
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    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    Kevin T Kevin, You're right I probably should avoid Veto charged relationships. I did not know that this was a Veto charged relationship however, until it was pulled. Most importantly I think people in general need to learn to say what they mean and mean what they say. Then at least I would...
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    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    reply PolyinPractice, As tempting as that is, I am not going to bend to that level. I think he really is tying to just figure out how to make her happy and find his happiness as well. I had conversations with her about this. She told me she was worried about us developing feeling for each...
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    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    reply GalaGirl, Thank you. I do have one friend that is poly as well, and he is actually the one that suggested that I write about my experience. Maybe it would help me to at least not keep it bottled up. But you know it's different for people in these types of relationships, It's not like I...
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    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    This is very long, and I am sorry. Anyone that cares to read it and offer some friendly advise I will very much appreciate it. I just need to vent somewhere to someone, and this seemed like maybe the place that I could do that. So, yes my heart is broken. I hurt inside, and I may laugh and...
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