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Regarding an earlier comment, apologies for lack of specification, I have my hands full of toddlers after work, I DO keep my own boundaries. That is why I am so torn, I wonder if I am too rigid. I created the situation that led to me crying because I said, "Don't come over" if the rules of our...

Originally, I had chosen when I entered the poly community to only date poly men who already had partners because I thought it meant they would have experience already in managing poly related issues like communication and jealousy. I thought if I dated single men (because there is a deluge of...

I appreciate the insight from those who are in similar situations. I am not ready to walk away after having spoken up when I thought it was all over. I am uncertain what my tolerance will remain in concerns to the couple's dynamics but have chosen to speak to my shared partner and invite him...

Situation: Last week, metamour told partner that she wanted partner to downgrade relationship of partner and me to the equivalent of fuck buddy. My shared partner told me and was froze with indecision over how to handle the situation because he didn't want to lose me and knew I wouldn't accept...