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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    WE= crush and I sorry. well I was hoping it would be an eventual thing with GF and I. We did move fast because things were going so great :-/ (weird to admit that). We were having conversations about a lot of plans we wanted to take on and places to travel....just really awesome activities and...
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    I have no idea how to quote only certain parts of what you have been writing like you did with me. What you said on deal breaker is important and I am working on knowing myself enough in relationships to know what my terms of agreements would be but I am learning. thanks we are always...
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    YES! this is great. I'll bring it up! -thank you. I wish I had realized how powerful the use of resources was in dating. Something I will certainly make use of for future issues and thoughts. It's funny because my lesson last year was learning that it was ok to accept help from others. :)
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    Making a plan is a great idea.... As for dropping crush, I don't want that because she isn't just a crush. She also happens to be a close friend of mine and a great support and life resource. The only reason it may seem that I have more of the hots and feelings for crush is because her and I...
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    Sorry I owe you an apology...galagirl showed to me that it was a genuine question and I have told her. This stuff is not my forte at all. I was being defensive because I felt exposed on the internet.
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    Update Alright so I told her. She didn't really anything about it but she just wanted to logically know what would make sense moving on. She is currently processing whether she wants to end it because that make sense or build from there moving on with our relationship because she can...
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    Thank you. Helped a lot.
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    1524 I kinda thought that was obvious. I'm sure everyone else on here would've have thought as much seeing as I gave praise to a reply that I suggest that I tell her what happened. I apologize if I seem defensive but your comment came off pretty condensending and facetious.
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    Thanks y'all. I decided to have a conversation with the GF tonight when I see her. Haven't seen her in a week. I am not afraid anymore....I made a decision because I wasn't true to myself and got someone hurt in the process. I tried to ignore my own issues, fears and insecurities and they...
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    Wow you are really good at this thank you! So crush woman and I made and still are really great friends, so I feel like its more than a crush and she does as well...which presents a problem as to why its complicated. I've never entered into a mono relationship like gf/bf. Simply because I...
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    Identity crisis and hurt emotions

    hey everyone, I am so awkward a this but nobody knows who I am so it is ok. I met this girl fall 2014 at some conference in my city and something just kept making me stare at her to the point where I'd just look down because everytime I looked up, my eyes would look for her. We'd make eye...
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