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Thank you Kevin, you've been the most kind and helpful one here. Oh wait... *rapidly ringing bell* And the prize goes to the one with the penis!!! Was that katty?

Frankly I don't care if you are a moderator or not. Your "guessing" is the same as "with all due respect" or "bless his heart." You've obviously got issues with someone potentially transitioning a relationship into anything that you can not approve of. I don't know who hurt you or how and what...

You couldn't be further off base. Any thoughts of sexual intimacy has been left behind. Sounds to me like you have some serious issues yourself and you are hiding in the poly community instead of facing your true problems. Maybe you should dig a little deeper into your own problems before you...

Uh not so at all. There is nothing that I've done. Its quite complicatedly simple. There are many complications and I am simply guilty by association. I'm not comfortable with going into it any further at this time. Other than to say that I very much still want to be friends first and foremost...

Totally a S issue and I fear its the fact that I have a penis.

Not so happy right now. Things not going so well. Not wanting to go into it but feeling like I'll burst if I don't say anything.

Absolutely. K has had many friends, as I have, that weren't "required" to be friends with the other. We've each been supportive of each others friends. Well mostly, K has had some unhealthy friendships (by her own admission) that didn't meet my approval. Only twice in 15 years have we had to...

Good questions and points all. And thanks again for being positive and inquisitive. In the earliest conversations of S and K's reaquantaince K had made clear that she has found a wonderful man who's been taking good care of her over the years and that K would not do anything that would hurt me...

Really, honestly that's been a concern of both of ours. And yes I know how that sounds. Earlier it was quite uncomfortable. How do I act? How am I being perceived? Etc S's daughter C is gone with her father. Our son T is playing on an iPad and S, K and I (D) are chilling on he couch. I did...

Kevin, that is certainly of our concern too. Things here are awfully stressful right now. We are at gf's after a brief family mall outing that was cut shortish by her daughter's father, who's coming to pick her back up. Gf had given K a computer to be able to do online work. Said computer...

Absolutely, hense all the tension and frustration. There's so much going on with her right now and I'm sure she's trying to wrap her mind around everything. K and I had some real serious issues early on because, as I'm sure many women have experienced, she was not treated with the respect that I...

Since I'm neither Cher nor the Doctor I guess I can't turn back time and make it right. But, what I'd like, and K too, is to at the very least be able to maintain our family friendship which also includes our children. Whether sex is or isn't am option does not matter to K and I at this time...

When I've said either we or I that is exactly what I've meant. There is no need to attempt to dissect that any further. They have had ample time together and I don't begrudge them that. That being said I've been left out and it's really that simple. My offers may have come across as over stated...

I've proposed some times when I'd like to be in her neighborhood for a group bicycle ride and they could have a couple hours of girl time while I'm out, with the hopes of spending some time together before or after. I/we are fine with being friends and taking things slowly and continuing the...

I recognize I put it out there but, would you wipe your ass with sandpaper. Well, alright, so some might. I don't expect every word to be charmin soft but, some here could at least wash their hands before touching their keyboards. IMHO

fleshed out background and K has left the building K and I weren't actively looking for someone when we met, although we were introduced by her middle sister who happened to be a friend of mine. Although we had discussed K's bisexualality and her desires to have a threesome and to share me with...

Last night K and I went to the store and on the way we were talking, as people often do, and we finished our statement together, with the same words. Exactly. This is also what happened after visiting with our gf when she was commiserating about her "ex." The fact that we did this in the...

so scaredandconfused she's left the building? D here. Its seems no surprise to me that ScaredAndConfused hasn't responded back to this thread of their own. It is beyond me why anyone would leave such a kind and accepting place as this forum after you caring and supportive words. Perhaps the...

Um... yes. READ and ASSIMILATED. Treated like crap by people who think they know EVERYTHING. I, the wife, am DONE. I have researched all that has been shared with us, and so has Hubby. Do not presume that we haven't. We have also responded gently so as not to piss anyone off, which is how...

Forum guidelines state that while is isn't preferred to have a couple with a joint account, some have been allowed as long as they denote who is posting. I looked when asked to by NYCindie. All anyone can seem to focus on is that we are a comfortable couple who IS and ARE considering the needs...