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Before I make an update on my situation, I just want to say that hearing about your ex husband really lit a fire in me because yeah, I don't want to be like that and I'm not. It just takes some constant motivation to heal and grow. As for what's going on with me now, well I told K & D my plans...

So to start, Yeah this is definitely something I am trying to address in therapy, because you are right. I grew up in a family where conflict avoidance was the name of the game and it's something I'm having to unlearn a lot more suddenly than I thought. And yeah another update is that I did...

So simple update I guess, because I’m still feeling the emotions a bit. But me and K talked and she told me a little better of what she wants. She wants me as either a friend or partner right now (am a little unclear of if she wants one or the other) but she does not want to be physical with me...

My apologies, I kind of read over it and internalized the recommendation without commenting on it, but considering everything, I should be reaffirming the lessons learned as much as possible I am aware that SAS people are very vulnerable people and my knowledge of that was sadly not enough to...

So first of all, thank you for organizing your post so well it really helps. Everything you had gathered was pretty much right, and I'm thankful that my rambling wasn't too confusing Specifically, she wanted to try a butt plug. And Butt Plugs are something D does relatively a lot and...

Well so far the plan is to go back up this Saturday weather or not she is ready for me to be there, and just I suppose live my life up there as best I can until I can find a new place to live near school. What I want I guess in my heart of hearts is to be able to still have a healthy...

Sooooooooooooo Fights in a Polyam Relationship? So kinda just looking for advice but I am? In a Polyam V relationship which for a long while was kept secret from family and friends. Sadly I might be going through a bit of a separation with my 2+ year partner(K) and her metamor (D) K is a...