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Actually, nearly all of them. At least all of her close friends. Oddly though, I see thread after thread after thread of relationships falling apart because people are in triangles where they don't care for each other, only one person of the group. I would suspect that more often than not...

I'm still very new to this, but I don't think there is much difference in what constitutes the fundamentals of a relationship: communication, honesty, and openness. This does go on your husband for not nipping this in the bud (in the right way). Of course, this is just based on one side of the...

Thank you to everyone for your support. My wife and I have been talking at great lengths. I think one of the important things for us, is that we find someone that is interested in having a relationship with both of us. I'm straight and so it wouldn't be a sexual relationship with me, but have...

Created a thread for non-intro discussion here. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=76088

FYI, always open for advice and I apologize if I ever get defensive. I also welcome PMs if someone would be more comfortable with that.

Hello everyone. Here is an excerpt taken from my intro thread to lead into this. First, I can see that the line in the OP "all her needs" was a poor choice of words. Second and again, I'm not saying she is a dog with the example earlier, just trying to relate the fears that I have...

I'll actually take that stuff up in a more appropriate thread, rather than the intro forums.

It's not so much as suggesting that I should meet every need, but rather the idea of wanting to meet a need and being told "no, someone else has that taken care of." I suppose the real fear is that the "balance" of needs may get "unfairly balanced." Like the needs I meet are working, paying...

Hello from Oregon! Just looking to try to gain some understanding and perspective. I, myself, am not Poly (at least I don't think so), but my wife of 8 years has recently come out as Poly (she didn't know until only recently). It has been emotionally very painful for her and I try to be as...