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I don't know if it's okay for me to post on such an old thread but I found it through the master thread and noticed that something was missing, so far as I read, namely, that HPV can potentially be transmitted through any part of the body, not just genitalia, and also that there is still risk of...

Thanks! I plan to, although I have to limit myself as I have a history of becoming overly entangled in virtual spaces. I wasn't being serious, oops, I don't think my brand of humor translates very well into text! I'm sorry for remaining vague, it's just that I don't feel comfortable removing...

Hi again. Sorry, I haven't been responding in complete seriousness because I no longer feel that it is necessary. I'm no longer seeking any advice here. I apologize if I hadn't made that sufficiently clear already. A lot of extremely helpful insight was very generously given and it helped me in...

I do now! And turns out it didn't, hooray! (I did mention those two resolutions in a previous post, but I don't blame you for missing it.) Thanks for the advice! I do plan on meeting with my metamour at some point and apologizing as a gesture of goodwill, but more so to hopefully get to know...

Your FarFromRightfulness, there were no astral planes and no wicked ways. Also, I was intentionally pretending not to understand the meaning of frame, for my own amusement. As for unwarranted assumptions, do you have a warrant? No? Then I do not permit a search of my person! I mean, if I even am...

This exactly so much! Any signs of andro in women is hot, like no makeup, or makeup but short hair, so the further along that spectrum the better, but it always has to be "masculinity" swimming a solution of "feminity", so to speak. Also, tall, big men, as long as they're neither muscular nor...

:-) I'm fortunate to have found a partner who is very forgiving (not that I did anything wrong!) and gracious. Everyone makes mistakes, so it's just nice to be in a relationship where you're both invested in getting things back into a healthy space when that happens. You've ruined all my sense...

Thanks for all the feedback! Well, I really just mentioned that in the context of having learned that intentionally breaking a fluid bond agreement is often considered cheating, and being freaked out that that could potentially have been what happened. It wasn't, but that was where the anxiety...

Thank you so much for your thoughts Infinity, some of the points did come across my mind and this is certainly going to require some working through with my partner. I am doing my best not to feel defeated by the circumstances. This is very difficult, I would not feel comfortable telling the...

Thank you all, it's really helpful.. No specific reason, no.. Neither are upset with me. About the books, I requested them. I'm a big reader. Thank you again for the perspective.

Thank you everyone for all your thoughtful responses and clarifications again. Hmmmm. You're right in a way, I mean you're right that it is my partner's responsibility to ensure that they keep their agreements, but I also have to acknowledge that I played a part. This is difficult to talk about...

Thank you very kindly for the respones. I find it difficult to not see myself at blame to any degree here. As one of the parties involved in the activity that broke the trust of my partner and my metamour, I am certainly involved and I believe part of the responsibility is mine. Of course their...

Thank you for the response Kevin T. It is reassuring in a way to know that there is no 'poly protocol', so to speak, as it means I am not so far out of my comfort zone in approaching my metamour, although it would also be nice if I had clear rules to follow! I should clarify that my partner...

Hello, I am very new to polyamory and seeking education. I am (I think—still learning terms and things) a secondary, and my partner is fluid bonded with their primary (a highly stable relationship). During one of our sexual encounters, my partner neglected to enforce the fluid bond and I lacked...