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    I do but I don't want to be poly

    UPDATE: My boyfriend (SZ) and I had an in depth conversation last night and I understand a lot more now. I personally see sex as an intimate connection and activity, so when he brought up the idea of polysexual activities (which was always done in a casual manner, not as part of our serious...
  2. K

    I do but I don't want to be poly

    That post was great as well. We're definitely type A, and I think the fear was stemming from the assumption we should be bored or unhappy to need another person.
  3. K

    I do but I don't want to be poly

    BigGuy, that helped a LOT. Ultimately I either trust him and have faith in our relationship or I don't. And I do, so I guess there's no reason to not want to explore everything in our lives that could provide happiness.
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    I do but I don't want to be poly

    I do and I don't mean literally. I definitely don't mean I want him to be exclusively everything, I just want to be ABLE to provide everything he wants or needs. At the risk of sounding dramatic, it makes me feel like "not enough" for him to need to go outside of our relationship for something...
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    I do but I don't want to be poly

    Hey everybody! I've been reading a lot of posts and gained an incredible amount of insight, but I'd love any direct advice you have to offer. I'm 20 and I've been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 15 months. We've practically lived together since May, and officially moved in together in August...
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