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Trash talking was a major issue (which was resolved during our reconciliation) BUT if hubby or I ever tried to talk great about each other, jealousy would happen. It was like a damned if you do and damned if you don't kinda situation.

Both of these are really good responses, thank you!

This seems very much true! We are all close in age, in our early 30's. Husband's ex wanted marriage, legally. My bf was totally against it until me and my husband were facing divorce then suddenly that's what he wanted. He claims he never found anyone he felt that way with and that's why he was...

Yeah I've come across several guys who claim their poly is dadt. I don't do that, not comforting at all. Or I quickly find out that it's only sex they want and no relationship at all. Not my cup of tea either. As far as our poly community, it's a big dramafest. We've tried to reach out to some...

It does help. But it still hurts. Me and bf have been together for 2 and a half years. I truly love him but getting him to understand that I CAN and do love both he and my husband as equals is exhausting. He wants to be my primary but I can't do that. My husband and his now ex gf, were...

My husband and I opened our marriage just a few months shy of 3 years ago. We realized fairly quickly that we are/can be poly. We love it. We get our needs met by being with multiple people. Even more of a plus if we all get along greatly. If not then it's workable, to a certain extent. The...

Oh no no no, I knew almost immediately when we met that I could never allow her to have control over a major bill in my or my husbands name or for our household :p

The bill is in hubby's name. We all 4 have our own phone on this contract. Hubby, me and my bf pay our share at a lower cost than she does since we have significantly less data. Her part gets paid Reguardless of whether she dishes out the money or not. Either she puts the money up or our money...

Ah see, this is a lesson we learned early. She has NO self control on her gigs. She will use as much as she wants Reguardless of what the ending cost is. USUALLY, she would pay it. MOSTLY, she wouldn't. So we got family base. An extra feature that we pay for. It allows us to control how much...

I talked to my husband about it tonight. If she doesn't pay something soon that's what we will do. Reduce the extra unnecessary features to an amount we can afford if she won't pay up.

Cutting her off the plan will cost a termination fee that costs more than the entire bill. Something we can't afford atm and she definitely would not pay out.

Me my husbandmy bf and her are all on the same contract. We all pay a certain amount but since she wanted 8g of data she pays more for her percentage than we do. We only have 2g each. So naturally she pays more for her part. It's in my husbands name.

It's a cellphone contract that she is involved in. And yeah, talking to her myself would cause her to just explode on my husband more :(

It isn't a bill we can just stop paying since we are all involved in it but special features will be getting cut. I agree 100% one the "once you let it slide one time they'll expect it every time "

Thanks for your reply. I'm seriously considering cutting back on the features so we can definitely afford it without her help.

Thanks for the link, some of the info did help and there are definitely mental health issues in the cause of this

Thank you!

I appreciate your reply but honestly, telling him I don't want to hear about his issues with her would breach my communication needs. I really don't mind listeningto their problems, it's the fact that I don't know how to help or what to say. For the money issue, without giving out our entire...

I'm seeking advice for some issues between my husband and his gf. She is on a rampage with him...again...for the 3rd time within a few months. Basically arguing about petty things until the point of almost calling it quits. Usually, she talks him into coming to her house and they talk things...

Thank you for all of the replies. Many stood out greatly for me and each one opened a new insight for me. No I have not cheated. Yes there are many things that my partner is uncomfortable doing for/with me and I refuse to push those boundaries; another reason for me wanting to seek out another...