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    Mono poly relationships

    Yes and no lol, I appreciate your reply tho
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    Mono poly relationships

    How do you convince your mono partner that they are enough but yet you still want/need other partners?
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    Bf doesn't want sex with me if I am intimate with someone else

    Kevin, I thought we compromised on me meeting other people but we ended up arguing about it again. Even if the possibility of me having intimacy with another guy is there he is turned off and gets angry. Just to put it out there, he does not direct this anger toward me in any way. He confessed...
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    Bf doesn't want sex with me if I am intimate with someone else

    Tinwen, yes you got it correct. I truly want a full relationship with bf. Sexual, romantic, etc. And to also keep our "Daddy/babygirl" relationship. But with the things we lack in our lives I feel like I need to seek out elsewhere so I don't torture him with it :p he sees it as him being...
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    Bf doesn't want sex with me if I am intimate with someone else

    Polygone, we are poly. Or at least I am. I'm currently married and have been for several years before bf came along. Hubby made some booboo's a little over a year ago that suddenly set off a spark in bf. He realized that seeing me hurt like that was something he couldn't tolerate and jealousy...
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    Bf doesn't want sex with me if I am intimate with someone else

    I posted here before about a situation similar to this but I'm seriously at a loss on what to do. I have been talking to a guy for a few weeks now. He and I want to meet and hang out. My bf spirals into a depression about this but tells me to do what makes me happy. BUT if this guy and I have...
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    Cheating, insecurities, jealousy, mental illness

    Thank you for your reply. This situation is driving me crazy. I love this man to death but his mental illness and lack of communication is driving a nail between us. He is scared to see a psychiatrist. He's been in an asylum twice and refuses to ever go back. I'm worried what he might do if I...
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    Cheating, insecurities, jealousy, mental illness

    I have been having a lot of issues with my boyfriend lately. When we first met (over 2 years ago) He stated that he was poly. I was/am married and we clicked really well. He got along great with my husband too. We all 3 live together. He moved in about a year after we started dating. He had no...
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    Needs not being met

    He was well aware of me being married before we ever met. And he understood what he was getting into. He said he was poly also but told me he didn't want to persue any other person, that I was everything he had been looking for. I never told him that he and my husband would be the only ones I...
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    Needs not being met

    @GalaGirl It is a tough spot to be in and it's driving me crazy. Thank you for your insight :)
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    Needs not being met

    Exactly, I have fetishes that I really love and can't get those fulfilled from him because it's a major boundary for him. I have asked many times and he says absolutely not. Also, I love hiking and he simply can't keep up. There are others but that's the base of it. And most of the fetishes I...
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    Needs not being met

    Needs like things in the bedroom that he isn't comfortable doing, going to places he doesn't enjoy (that I do), etc. Things I really want to do that are a major boundary for him. Communication isn't one of his strong traits, it's understandable to me because he has a type of autism that make...
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    Needs not being met

    I am already harboring resentment with this, there is a guy I am interested in and I really want to persue it but I really don't want him in a depression or to feel worthless. He is most definitely jealous. It scares him too because he says he had never felt jealousy in his life before me. But...
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    Needs not being met

    I love the way you worded this and using the comparison!
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    Needs not being met

    I want to keep meeting new people. Men and women. Sex could be a possibility but not necessary. After discussing this with my husband and bf, husband is totally fine with it but bf isn't. I feel like I'm not getting needs met but not sure how to discuss it bc bf has emotional issues and feels...
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    Hi all :)

    Hello everyone who may read this, I'm not going to write a wall of text bc that's what my story would be lol instead I'll just give a few things. .my husband and I have been open/poly for 2 years. .I have one other partner and he is also my Daddy (Dd/lg relationship) .my husband has one...
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