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    I have what may be a silly question, but...

    I have to ask what poly people think about this. If you're out on a date with one of your partners, then you come home to the partner you live with, do you always shower first? My wife did not shower the other night before coming home because "there were no fluids". However, they were naked...
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    I need to make a hard decision

    thank you so much....I really appreciate the input. Seriously, I hesitated coming to a poly board to post about how I don't think I'm poly. But I really don't have anyone else to talk to as my mono friends just say un-helpful things like "well I couldn't do that", etc. :D
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    I need to make a hard decision

    1. we are fluid bonded, though we don't do much that exposes the other to fluids. We have agreed that sex with anyone else must be perfectly safe. 2. we've just been tested recently 3. I would imagine on the nights she is staying at the friend's, she would check in with that friend if needed...
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    I need to make a hard decision

    So we just had lunch. We want to give this a try before making any drastic decisions because we really really love each other. She told me she isn't even sure if she needs to be poly forever, but she has these "urges" she wants to explore. The compromise for that is she will stay at our...
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    I need to make a hard decision

    thanks GalaGirl haha. one of the words in the image verification is "marriage". hmmm. so yes, I definitely think I have a very different idea of what it means to be married and living together. when we were first dating, she actually had another partner and split her time between us. I think...
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    I need to make a hard decision

    thanks : ) thanks for all the nice posts. so last night I got a text from her saying the girl said something that triggered her and she was going to break it off. However, she was still spending the night over there in the guest room. This is hard for me because that meant she didn't feel safe...
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    I need to make a hard decision

    Hi there, My wife and I (I'm a woman) got married under the assumption that we'd be poly. There's a significant age difference which was part of it for her, but mostly she just wants a big network of really close relationships in her life. I'd never experienced poly before, but she was really...
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