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Well, what sort of things are you interested in? What are your hobbies and passions, outside of your wife? And if you don't have many, maybe its time to work on that. It is hard to love people and be loved in return, if you don't think that you are interesting and lovable. You can be...

The way you describe it makes me feel slightly uneasy. He should know how to be considerate of his partner, and the fact that he isn't seems like a huge red flag to me. Some minor things, like the sheet changing, just really might not be on his radar and wouldn't be out of line to mention - like...

Hierarchy and rules definitely ARE NOT necessary to polyamorous relationships, and in my opinion (based in my personal experience and philosophical ideas of poly) they are much more damaging than anything else. Rules are only for people you don't trust to behave properly - and if you don't...

If you both want to make it work I have no doubt that you can. Plenty of straight couples are in sexless marriages... and you have a leg up on that because you don't have the resentment that your partner isn't having sex with you, or feel obligated to have sex with them even if you don't want...

How he reacted with your ex is a HUGE red flag to me, and I would make bets that he will do it again. I wouldn't have reacted the way you did, and broken things off with your ex, because to me it seems your husband is being blatantly controlling and not even trying to learn good communication...

I just asked him about this and he was like "sure!" so I do think that will really help, but then part of me is like "WTF if its that easy why weren't we doing it all along?!" lol Also, I didn't realize going into things how much it would bother me to be closeted. He did not disclose it as...

15 year olds are kind of the worst, that age is SUPER difficult and pretty much everyone I know went through a stage of being a real pisser at that age. I would totally agree that Jane needs to be home more and spend more time with Jill. Why is she gone so often? Unless she is working evenings...

I have always had a really a very strong desire for lots of physical affection from romantic partners - touch, kisses, hugs, cuddles, etc. I never thought about it much in my prior monogamous relationships, because it always seemed fairly easy for boyfriends to adjust their behavior to meet...