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I find this very interesting. My comments about children are easy to see. I said that I don't want to raise a kid who is not mine. How on earth is that disgusting? This might be stupid of me to ask, since you think that is disgusting. Which of my comments about women were disgusting...

I think you should mention that nsa sex would be ok for him if he is not interested in dating other people. That way he could get something out of the arrangement.

Out of curiosity, what are you tryimg to accomplish with this? Do you actually think that you could bully someone in to accepting your ideology by trying to insult them? Or are you just a butthurt feminist who does not like something what she sees and reeeeee in holy rage? I really don't know...

This goes to this post and the one you made before, still not buying what you are selling.

That was a guilt trip. Nothing more.

I should read this earlier. I think you might be right about this. She wanted me to go first and encouraged me to have a go at her friend. I was the one who did not exactly agree on her suggestions. I think I will do just that. I feel so relieved when she told me not to worry about this.

I could not wait to see her and confessed the whole thing to her. She said that she already knows, appreciates me coming clean with this and not to worry. We will discuss something later. Phew.

So much going slow there. Ah shit why am I this stupid :(

Yeah I said I will not be back but I am now royally screwed and this seems like a good place to vent. So my gf told me that she wanted me to go first because this is her idea and she set me up for a lunch with her friend. It was fun, she is really nice and really, really hot. No problems there...

I think I am done here. Thanks for the advice and have a good life, everyone!

I am a bit confused now. You are saying that there would be some kind of lack of success yet at the same time you are promoting the idea that I should allow my gf virtually limitless pool of guys wanting to do her? I mean. How that would be any better? :D

How old are you? I am in my prime. There are a lot of girls who are hitting on me when I go out, even with a ring on my finger. I know many of them are just flirting for fun but there are many times when I get invited to their place. Which I think is a secret codeword for sex. I could be wrong...

Well obviously it will not happen before we agree on this. As I said, your advice was good before. I think we should take it very slow before agreeing to anything. If we agree, then that exclusivity is not a problem. As long as it is only women we are talking about ;)

Well the premise has shifted a bit. She does not want me to date other women but she is ok with just sex if she gets to date girls. I think I have said that somewhere here. If we do agree then she gets to date girls who she is attracted to. I get to have sex with girls I find fuckable. That is...

Well she has to be fine if she wants to open up. Otherwise it is not happening. If she wants to date guys, our relationship is over. I fully expect me to suck it up, as it is something I agreed on. I expect her to suck it up too, if she wants to continue with the likely agreement. I can be sure...

Nope, still not buying. It will not be onesided as I can have casual sex with women, quite possibly with a friend of hers. She lives almost next door so I guess there is a chance that every time my gf goes on a date I will be getting some attention to myself. If not, it is not that big of a deal.

It is not solved, it would be a compromise for me. I don't know if I would be resentful but there is at least a chance that I would not be. If I agree on something, then the blame is on me for agreeing.

This is somewhat irrelevant, because there is no need for me to buy what you are trying to sell. It was a factual correction for you. Anyway I will respond. Vasectomy is not at all common here. Very, very few guys go that route. Why would I want to coparent someone elses kid? I want my own...

If I were to catch feelings, I would just end the thing and get over those feelings. Just like you do with crushes. I have plenty of experience with fwb:s before I met my gf and I have never before been in love. I think that the chances of that happening are slim at best. More interesting is...

That is not factually correct. Let's assume that she would date a guy and get pregnant in couple of years. What if the baby is not mine? That would be 8 wasted years and I would need to find another partner to have a life with.