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Well when I first played with the idea I was 18 and engaged. :eek: I was very unhappy and tried to break things off with him. He didn't want to let me go and suggested that we try dating others while still being together. I foolishly agreed. Well I started dating one guy that I ended falling in...

This is the first poly relationship for both of us and it has been a learn as you go thing for both of us. I have talked to him and told him I invaded his privacy. He was not upset with me only with himself. After talking things over with him and my husband I will give him ONE more chance. I...

We agreed to tell each other if we even if it might be a possibility. For example... If either of us planned on going on a date we said we would let the other know. If it was unplanned and we ended up kissing someone or more we would tell. I've been honest and have told him about one guy that I...

You are right. I told him about a month ago that I didn't trust him. I should have just gone with my gut feeling and ended it then. This is the first time I've invaded someone's privacy to catch them in a lie. I have learned my lesson, next time I'll just end it. If I didn't find anything I...

Is lying to my face not just as disrespectful? As long as people respect me enough to be honest, then I give them the same respect. I would say the honeymoon phase is over at this point. I know he will be pissed about me disrespecting his privacy, but at least I know that i judged him wrong and...

Yes, I will tell him how I found out about his lies. If he would have respected me enough to be honest with me I wouldn't have invaded his privacy. He knows I know his password and I have told him that I am the type to snoop if lied to. I gave plenty of warning about what lying will do. I have...

I am new with poly and in my first relationship since my husband and I decided to try it out. Every thing has been going great with the new guy for the last 3mos till now. I have been feeling like he has been hiding things from me. Our only rule is to be honest and open. He is free to date...