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    Is there a normal adaptation period from mono to poly mindset?

    Thank you GorgeousKitten! It is great to hear about your story, and how time (and new partners) helped ease things. It certainly gives me hope :)) And thank you Vanquish :) Yes, I feel like I have really dealt with a lot of my issues for now, and fully embrace everything. What has helped me the...
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    Is there a normal adaptation period from mono to poly mindset?

    Thank you so much ButtercupGirl and LovingRadiance! You have both helped me a lot. I think I just really needed to hear that not being perfect at this from day one wasn't a sign that I was fooling myself. It's a scary thought, this fooling oneself business :) I was prepared for difficult...
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    Is there a normal adaptation period from mono to poly mindset?

    Thank you LovingRadiance Thank you for your reply and your practical advice :) I feel I am doing a lot of work towards these things, and your reply helps point me in the direction I need to focus on even more. I think my confusion comes mostly from the fact that I don't know where I stand...
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    Is there a normal adaptation period from mono to poly mindset?

    Hi everyone :) I've been reading a lot of posts here during the past few weeks, and feel it is time to introduce myself and ask for some guidance. I am very new to poly and concerned about how hard the adaptation period is, despite my intellectual beliefs about it. I (female, straight, 37...
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