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Dating to me implies commitment and I don't like that. I also don't go on dates with him anyways. But yeah, that is semantics.

Okay, so I think there were some major misunderstandings here, that first greyed out option (pausing dating F) isn't something that was ever suggested. What I saw being suggested was to cut off contact with F and E, which is something I'm not willing to do. I don't think F needs a therapist or...

Literally the only advice was to ignore and abandon people??? I'd welcome any /productive/ advice on how to improve the situation and my relationships instead of saying fuck it and abandoning my problems?

I'm not talking about self-harm from a breakup. I'm talking about being completely and abruptly isolated from every one of your friends for no reason. Situations cause behaviors, it's basic psychology. Isolation and abandonment in this way are considered to be traumas, and have been known to...

I do think it would be best if either E officially broke up with F or if she put effort into fixing their relationship. Dropping out of the wedding is not an option. I live with K and A, I'm in an intimate relationship with them, I love and care for them. Dropping out would be a huge dick move...

It sucks because I don't like having her around right now, not because I can't be civil. Trust me, I've very nice to her, its just hard watching her do things with my roommates when she hasn't officially ended things with F, its unethical in my eyes. I don't pity F, I care for him deeply and if...

Gold Cortinas He's actually moved back in with his parents so its less optimal to hang out there. Our houses are about 3 hours apart so we often spend weekends at each other's homes instead of driving 6 hours in a day. Our house is optimal hang out because it has extra bed and is bigger since...

This might be complicated because lots of people and relational contexts, but please bear with me and feel free to ask questions for clarification. I am married to my primary, P. Our relationship is semi-open, that is we both have veto power but we are not monogamous. Outside of our marriage I...