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Hey arrow, PoorSystem here. Fellow newb to the poly scene. Sounds like the guy either isn't really poly and is using it as a poor excuse to have sex with multiple girls, or he lacks a certain amount of emotional intelligence. Now, while I agree with kdt's assessment that you should likely break...

A quick praise I am between two of my long classes right now and so I have time to update y'all on something that I noticed in hindsight that I thought was really sweet. So, if you just happened to skip to this current post, I was rather quickly outed to my parents due to them being...

I Ain't got game Been a while since I last posted. Not really much has changed, but I realized a sad fact. I have very little idea on how to date. Not to brag, mind, but when I actually get to dating someone I am decent at it. Not the best, I don't lay claim to the hearts of others very well...

My Androphobia Honestly, I've decided to wait on telling Kk. I mean, she's done nothing but hurt and disappoint me over the years so why should I expect any more from her? As much as I would like to pretend that she could be nice about this, I would be lying to my instincts. So, I think I...

The scariest question: what do I want? I've been trying to ignore that question for a while now. Even before my meltdown a little while ago when I accepted that monogamy might be for me, I try not to think past tomorrow. Too depressing, in my opinion since there was so little I actually wanted...

Thoughts: 10/23/17 Heh, I had planned to add to this blog with my thoughts yesterday evening... then I promptly blew all my time talking to Runa... and then some, since we ended up talking till two. I can't do that every day, but its fun every now and then. Though, as much as I love my parents...

That is the way you veiw things, but I don't see poly that way. I don't see it as this hyper evolved nautral way of thinking. I view it more as an inborn orientation, like homosexuality vs heterosexuality. Some people have one and onlys, others like me are poly. I don't view it as 'more natural'...

Dear Smitten, Look, I am not saying that your GF is a bad person or even that it is all her fault. I know what it is to love someone who is not good to you, and how tempting it can be to think that if you do one thing differently, then maybe all the bad stuff will end and it will be all good...

I am not very experienced at romantic love, but I know what it is like to be on these kinds of whirlwind relationships is like. I mean, mine is my sister but the principles are the same. Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you wanting to stay together with your GF. It is how you feel...

Thoughts on Sam and should I mention my love life's entirety or just the Poly parts? As much as I would like to take that praise, I don't really deserve it. They deserve it for dragging this out of me, and for accepting me. I barely was a factor, at least I think so anyway. As for the...

Accepting myself, and being accepted. You absolutely right, I know I am not in a state to start experimenting with it. It certainly feels right in here, and a lot of thought blogs about polyfidelity feel like they ring true for me. Still, I will keep researching and experiencing life just to...

10/17/17 Thoughts I guess I'll make this a thing now. I mean, now that I am admitting to myself that this might be a part of me, I really need a place to put my thoughts away from judgmental eyes, you know? A place where more experienced people can put in their cents about it, maybe give some...

I'm worried about a lot of things here, not just those few Sunray. I figured it might take up a full post just to write down all my insecurities and worries, and honestly I feel like I would be retreading ground people in worse positions than me have been in. I'm not sure how to handle things...

I... honestly don't know what I am. I guess the best label right now would be poly-curious since I have yet to test the waters with a poly relationship as of yet because... well, I am scared about what I will find out. I mean... I guess some background here might be helpful. Okay, to start off...