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You are 100% correct, however I don't personally know any other poly's, and was hopeful a bi friend would understand the need to have a relationship with both sexes. First see above. Then the fact you tried is all I can ask for, and is appreciated. Again Thank you for understanding, why it...

GalaGirl, Thank you so much, you have given me several things I need to work on, some things I need to get comfortable with. I do appreciate your help. I'm sending positive thoughts your way.

Let me try this again, and try to correct my mistake of not being clear enough. I was stressed yesterday and well, and just screwed up. Now, I came here after my efforts to find advice elsewhere failed, because no one else could understand the poly aspect of my problem. I was hoping that...

yes, but that doesn't mean i can't try to make it possible

Thank you so much for your response, trying to help me understand what is going on, and to help me work out the situation. First of all, I tried to take the needs assessment, registered everything but could not figure out how to do the assessment. you are right about the layers, I'm not sure...

There is more than one kind of need, there are physical needs you can not do without, like food water. there are emotional needs, emotional needs will not kill you if you don't get it. But they will cause you to have some very serious mental health problems, such as severe anxiety, paranoia...

That pretty sums it up, but i would still be ok with being monogamous, if it wasn't for my health getting bad, and bringing up all those old feelings of being so helpless useless and wothless etc... You could say I want a lover that would not be a wrong description, but I'm not interested in...

@ SchrodingersCat, Thank you so so much for your reply. Finally somebody that understands what I am going through:) Your analogies are spot on. My wife is the most important person that I've had in my life. Of course I don't want to do anything to hurt her, or God forbid lose her. But it is...

I came out Bi-, when I was 17. Over the next few years I was in two poly relationships, it just seemed natural to me. In both I had both a bi-husband and a wife. There are things I need emotionally from each sex. It was great, all of my needs were being met, everyone was happy, things couldn't...