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For background on my situation, here's my intro thread - http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=108194 Things are looking pretty positive for my husband R these days - he has a date, of sorts, scheduled with his new potential partner. It seems like they want to meet up and talk through...

Quick update on all this - not sure what changed, but I was able to schedule some time with J, and as far as I can tell, S seemed to be fine with it. I'm hoping to be able to make plans with him again, but told J it needs to be a conversation between the two of them, unless there's some specific...

Being able to have a schedule where J and I can get together one on one would be fantastic, but it seems like that's a long way off. I brought this up the first time S and I had one of these conversations about how things might work, and it seemed to be very upsetting to her. I'm not sure if I...

Thanks for the warm welcome and advice, all. I appreciate it. You've all definitely given me a lot to think about. Taking a break from J right now doesn't really feel right, and I'm not sure if it would help, or just create more awkwardness (aside from being a very complicated thing to do...

Yeah, when J and I first talked about getting together (or trying to!), we both agreed that prioritizing the existing friendships (me and S, him and my husband) was going to be super important. We all hang out together pretty often. Also, this has all been going on a while, and S and I have had...

Hi all! So, here's my story - I've been with my husband (R) for almost twelve years now, and a little over a year and a half ago, he brought up the idea of poly/having an open relationship. After doing some reading on my own, and having a lot of conversations about what this would mean for us...