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    Dealing with the first metamour

    @lovingradience - that's actually great advice. I hadn't thought of it that way, but I guess it's a chance for me to focus on myself more. @SNeacail - I agree, but it was more the fact that he didn't consider inquiring about my plans or how I felt about it when he would have before. I...
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    Dealing with the first metamour

    Hello all, I've had an issue before and the advice helped me out a lot. So I figured it was worth giving it another go. A bit of background : My partner and I have been together for just over a year and a half. We have been poly from the beginning, he was married and in another...
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    When he brings his partners home for the night

    Magdlyn - He dates a lot, it goes in waves usually but it's way more than 8 a year. There are a few regulars where the relationship is based mainly on friendship, and a lot of new and fleeting encounters. I'm honestly fine with it. We're both very sexual people, so while some of his dating...
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    When he brings his partners home for the night

    So again, thank you everyone for your thoughts. It genuinely helped me work through some of what I was feeling. My SO and I sat down and talked about it yesterday. He seemed to honestly not realize how stressful these experiences were for me and we talked about ways to make it more...
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    When he brings his partners home for the night

    Thank you for all your input. To be fair, this is normally a once in awhile thing. He's generally very good at going to their place and the three in a row is uncommon. In terms of the noise being an issue, that can be part of it but even when they're relatively quiet I still feel the...
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    When he brings his partners home for the night

    @inyourendo - if I moved out it would be equivalent to breaking up. When we moved out of my old place it was as a couple moving somewhere together. And everything else about being together here is fine. I don't mind him bringing women home, and I want to be ok with being here when he does...
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    When he brings his partners home for the night

    I'm having an issue dealing with my partner bringing home his other partners and it's causing a huge strain on our relationship. Background: I met him when he was married. He and his wife had been together for 15+ years and had recently gone from an open marriage to poly. She had very strong...
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