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Isn't it wonderful? Sounds like you are definitely feeling more sensory...which is my fave! I am lucky to have found a better path for myself in my 30's. We'll see how it goes. Welcome to the forum!

I am not sure how I feel about poly, but I did just recently learn about relationship anarchy and am interested in learning more. I do know I am not mono, sexually or emotionally...but with him things are a bit different...a bit more to think about beforehand this time around.

Recovery is a very personal thing and I would appreciate if you could stop telling me or us how "into" our programs we are. We are BOTH active with active sponsers. Recovery isn't something that happens in three years, btw...it's a lifetime. We are in the position we are in because we are...

A lot of valid thoughts there. As you seemed to be very confused by us being friends, it is very hard...he has a major tendency and sometimes I wonder, desire to hurt me, his track record with me shows it. He treats me this way because I have allowed him to and it feels like he just doesn't...

Yeah, like I said...we've both been in active recovery for three years. The individual parts of us part are being actively worked on. We're very aware of our addiciion issues in the past and those are mistakes that neither of us want to repeat together or apart.

Thank you so very much! <3

Thank you!

feve milano That was a major part of our problem in the past. We are both in recovery programs and will be maintaining them. Neither of us want the negative anymore and that is very much why we are both so on the fence about this even being a option. I mean, we trust each other, and we love...

My ex-husband and I met nearly 15 years ago. We moved fast and went through a tumultuous relationship. Abuse, addiction, infidelity, codependency and control ran rampant and really fucked us both up. We grew to hate each other. Fast forward nearly 10 years after that...we were getting...

You and I have had nearly identical experiences. That's crazy.

My life could be a reality series. Many of us probably think that here. It's just crazier than words and makes no real sense, at first at least. I've been surrounded by sex my whole life (literally, my father made lifestyle gear by trade), but I've never really felt a draw to the sex part...