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Jimmy, welcome, also from Fresno.

I'm jumping in briefly to say, wow, the quality and dedication of the introspection and advice in this thread seem off the charts. I'm so impressed. This is not the Internet I've grown to despise. I hope someday I can meet such sensible adults.

Thanks, yes, I feel like we have some things in common. One of them being, we're reluctant to jeopardize our "nesting" partnership. I feel like if your partner is bi already, then they pretty much by definition are already sleeping with you, as well as someone not your gender. If that's not...

Hello from this tree hugging libtard from California

Apologies to Het for kinda hijacking their thread. I feel like we're exploring the same issue at least. In a nutshell, we feel like we might want to explore nonmonogamy, but are concerned we might be mistaken. I've noticed this happens to humans... we concoct what seems like a great idea...

I've tried to update my purple F from 2 different devices and get an "Oops we've run into trouble" message both times. Advice?

Greets, Gardener, I feel a connection as my wife of 35 years and I are engaging in conversation about nonmonogamy also. I feel willing, but she does not, so in order to proceed we will need to separate, so I can't offer us up as another positive example, sorry to say. But I am glad it is...

"Confidently", "compliment", "unapologetic", I will take all these things as positives, thank you. But it should be clear from previous posts that I am SO far from Gen Z that maybe the term wouldn't apply to me. Back on topic: I came here for insight into why nonmonogamy might NOT be for me...

"Based"? I do have a tablet I use for mobile connectivity, but I refuse to carry a phone. Nothing is so vital that I'd need that ball-and-chain on me at all times. In fact, 30 years ago we got by just fine without them. But back to the point, being present, it's true there are ways to be...

Thank you, that's spot on. Device distraction is so unattractive, which is why I don't have a phone. I'm dismayed this has been a problem for you.

Do you mind elaborating? Maybe some examples of "being present" and also not.